My brother and his wife was hanging around a lot with my husband and I here lately. That is until his wife and he split up. Well, shortly after they split up my mother tells me that my brother been talking with his wife. He told my mother that his wife had said a lot of stuff about my husband trying to get with her and propositioning her for s*x and a whole lot of other stuff. Well, of course when my mother tells me this, I called my brothers wife. She tells me that none of that ever happened and that she never told my brother any such things. So I didn't even confront my husband about it really. Me and my husband had already been arguing a lot about my trust issues. And I had been trying to work on it to save my own marriage. Well, the next day after all that was brought up, he had been talking to her about what was going on thu text messages while I was at work. Well, she was with my brother at the time. So my brother sees that she is texting my husband and he calls me at work. He tells me that they were texting and everything while he was setting right next to her. He had been with her trying to talk things over about their marriage. Well, of course, I flew off the handle at this point. I looked at it like he already knew what was being said about the two of them, so I figured if he wasn't doing anything with her then he would be trying to avoid that situation all together. But Anyway, So I call my husband and I accuse him. Well, we yell and argue over the phone and I got so upset that I told him to come get me from work. Well, when he gets there to pick me up, he shows me the texts that was sent back and forth and all that they was about was him asking who was saying what about him and why. Well, he was so mad about how I jumped to conclusions he was even talking about leaving me. Well, come to find out, none of this happened. For one, the text that I read from her saying " that &*$%$ made up some stuff about us", talking about my brother indicates that it didn't happen. Then when I went to speak to my brother and I show him the text messages, he insists that she did tell him all that and if it didn't happen then he didn't know why she would say that. Well, my husband and I worked out our end of this mess, and my brother and his wife have been talking and trying to figure out what they want to do. Well, I was with my brother the other day and he told me that he and his wife had talked about everything. She told him that she was mad at him for texting some girl that he knew, so in return she had made up a story about her and my husband to make him jealous. She told him that is why she had told him that she didn't want him to say anything. Now he said that she is wanting to apologize, but she couldn't work up the courage. And honestly, I don't know if I even care to hear an apology. That childish c**p almost split up my marriage. So, I guess what I am asking is, do I accept her apology for this? If I did, what if this happened again? I don't know what to do. If her and my brother stay married then it is going to make some family situations very uncomfortable. I just don't know what I should do. Any advice?
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