You might say that women simply plan for friendships to just arise eventually -- but how can that be if still women rarely initatiate meeting men as friends anyway?
I've asked this before-- but there was some misunderstanding.
I'm not saying that these women don't have or don't appreciate male friends, infact i'm saying the contrary. My argument is that with most of the male friendships women do have were not INITIATED by women. The women weren't the ones who said hi first, or who broke the ice first or were the ones who really accelerated the friendship (getting phone #'s or setting up meetings or invites etc..)-- that even in friendship men do most the work!
Why is this, if women appreciate their male friendships so much, why don't they initiate them more often?
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