I've been working in a law office since 1990 and the last few years I've had personality conflicts with others. In one office I acted chummy with my co-workers to be pleasant. Ended up that others didn't know their boundaries regarding being chummy and ended up being a problem and I was told by the supervising partner that I was there to work and not to make friends. My husband said the same.. THe next office I stated to myself and my office that I'm just here to do my work and I worked hard, was on time and was a very loyal employee, but all the staff said I seemed like I was in a bad mood. I wasn't, I just was a hard worker. They were all slackers half the time and good employees the other half. We got a new person in the office and she weined and cried to the office administrator that I didn't like her. Ended up causing conflict and I got "laid off" because they "said" they were cutting expenses, but I know it was because of this new person. I desperatly tried not to cause conflict, but I think they got intimidated by me because I was dedicated. How do I get a happy medium. Okay, please be nice and give me some good advice, maybe a book I can read to help me. I don't know that if now that I'm in my 40's that I don't let people push me around like I did in my 20's and 30's. I'm really confused. .......Please give me some healthy advice. Thank you.
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