How bad would it be to stop taking the pill w/o his consent??

Question

I kind of already asked this question, in another post..... but I'm more curious to see the answers on this specific question. I am seriously debating whether or not I should stop taking the b/c pill without him agreeing to it, or if i should just suck it up and "swallow"

I'm thinking about either finishing off this pack and then not take it anymore, or maybe go for another month after that because he told me months ago, he wanted a late summer baby or fall baby, and he isn't giving me a straight answer..... I've been asking and asking to go off the pill, and i'm tired of begging.....

If you would like a little more info, please read my last post about wanting baby #2. and i'd like to hear what you think about this whole thing!!! thanks for your time and answer!!

Answer 1

i say if u want a baby then go for it. its not evil, i been in ur shoes that way. just fake him out with some dummy pills and on trucking! happy baby dust! let me know if u concieve!

Answer 2

yeah, that's under the category "very f****** up things to do to one's spouse." it's not worth the humiliation dear.

Answer 3

You don't need his 'consent' to stop taking the pill. It's your body.  But you do need to tell him you have stopped, so he can decide if he wants to avoid s*x and/or wear a condom until HE is ready to have another baby.  

Answer 4

It would be very bad to do something that you haven't both agreed upon, especially when the result might be another human being.

Think of it this way- how would you feel if he did something behind your back?

Answer 5

Disclaimer:  This is just my personal opinion...

I would never to that to my husband.  Having a baby takes 2 and I think both parties should know what they are doing.  Besides, you'd feel guilty afterwards.  Well, I would.  

Maybe consider telling him you have 1 month left of pills and you do not plan on refilling them and see what he says.

Answer 6

I'd tell him. I was in the same situation about 3 months ago, my prescription ran out, and I told him I wanted another baby, so if he wanted to use birth control, it was up to him, as I hope I get pregnant. He went out and bought 12 condoms for the weekend, which we used, lol, and then he didn't buy anymore. Now I think he has decided he does want to try for a little boy to carry on his family name, because he's all about BD. But let the birth control be on his shoulders for a little while. I told my BF I would stay off it a year, and then go back on for a year, and the intermittant years are his responsibility, cause I don't think all the birth control things should always be the woman's work, lol. Not to mention I have unfounded theories about being on BC for a long time and always feel better when I can stop for a while and let my body do it's own thing, lol

Good luck!  

Answer 7

sounds like he doesnt know what he wants. if you get off the pill w/o him knowing it you will feel bad later on b/c it is like trapping him. just wait, and ask him. men are VERY simple creatures, ask him each month do you want to get pregnant next month? this means that the baby will be born in ______? and then he'll answer you and then you move on with life! good luck, and i hope you both get what you want!!!

Answer 8

How bad would it be if he got a vasectomy without your consent?

There's your answer.