How can I Stop/Defeat a Bully?

Question

At school, mainly on the bus, my friend and I are always called stuff like f**s or retards or that we have no friends just because we sit in the back of the bus, in which they say only COOL kids can sit there... it really gets on my nerves being called that stuff, especially if we aren't what they say we are, and I've tried everything from comebacks, to just ignoring them and it doesn't work! Does anyone have any suggestions of how to make them stop(besides telling a teacher) because they gang up if you try comebacks, and they still insult if you ignore...

Answer 1

I have the same problem. Well, i used to until i beat the crud out of the kid and now he's scared of me. You should do the same. ( He may try to get back at you, though. so be ready for anything.)

Answer 2

I had a friend in grade school who was always a target of the bullies, until...

Freddie came upon the idea that, when the bullies were chasing him or thumping on him, he would pick up dog turds from the side walk, and hold them out to touch the bullies with them.  Then he had the tough guys on the run.  It didn't take too long before they found someone else to torment.

That was 1953.

There are more dogs today...

Answer 3

beat the **** out of one of them with a stick. get crazy. you have to do this now or it will alw3ays go on. your too young to get in too much trouble for it. this is something youll wish you had done when youre older. realize you can do it now and you wont get anymore ****. p.s. dont hurt them too bad . dont hit the head.

Answer 4

Underneath every bully, there's a coward.

They call you names because they want to control you.  Doesn't sound like they're having a lot of luck doing that.

So you're doing the right thing.

If you have a walkman, you could sit there with your earbuds in - that would drive them up a wall.

Answer 5

acr gave and put the moves on them, they might back down, or make friends with the toughest guy on the bus

Answer 6

give them one shot by showing that you're not the one they're going to mess up with. talking with these kids wont help, show them some harshness and toughness, get them to respecting you.

Answer 7

i had bullies in school on a bus

they were always throwin things at me and callin me all kinds of names till one day i fought back physically yeah they all jumped me afterward but they never messed with me again after that day

Answer 8

a punch in the face should do it

Answer 9

ignore them and pay no attention.

once they see that what they are saying isnt bothering you, they'll eventually get over themselves and realize what they do / say isnt making any affect on your. which is what they want.

keep your head up highhhhhhhhh!

Answer 10

if you know that you're not a f*g, why do you let it get to you... i know it may be constant and annoying...but come on?

Look, if you cant hit them or snap at them... dont sit in the back of the bus, sweety.

Answer 11

It's one thing to be independent and different, but if you really go out of your way to not conform, naturally you will draw attention.  There's really nothing wrong with conforming in order to fit in and still keep your independence in private.  Conform but be independent.

Answer 12

Well, this one might have you being called a snitch and crybaby. But once an idiot nearly had deranged stalker tendencies towards me. I called his mother and stated politely I was kinda sick of having this guy on my back. I never did anything to him, and I really did not even want to have anything to do with him. I did not hear much from him again. Ofcourse this only works if his/her parents are actually trying to raise their kids.