How can I apologise?

Question

I'm afraid I said something very stupid and disappointing to my mother. I was angry with her and I thought that she didn't care about me. She didn't help me defend myself when my grandmother opposed me getting a pet though my mother wanted one too. I said really disappointing and foolish things and am regretting it now. She called me just now and told me that she was disappointed with me, thought I was more mature to evaluate. I feel really stupid and sad right now, but I don't know how to apologise. Can anyone help me?

Answer 1

jus be honest and open. tell her exactly wat you just told me. If you come out with it no beating around the bush she'll be able to accept your apology with no problem. By doing this she'll see that you are as mature as she thinks you are~ And don't feel stupid because we all say things we don't mean to people we really care about :)

Answer 2

Just go straight up you your mom, hug her tight, and say "I'm sorry" while crying. I know how you feel, and I feel really dumb when I say bad things to people I love. Good luck! <3

Answer 3

cook something (or do some errands or housechores) for her and even tho you don't actually say the words "i'm sorry", she will know that you are trying your best to apologize to her. good luck.  

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Just pick up the phone and tell her you are sorry for the way you acted. Tell her that you thought she would back you up and that is why you were so upset. Then drop the subject.

Answer 6

yes you probably should apologize you were very angry at the tine  

Answer 7

I don't know why it is that mother's and daughter's argue, disagree, and hurt each other more than sons do.  My son would never talk back to me or criticize me where my daughter has no probem in doing either.

She is quick to appoligize though.  There is one special quality mother's have and that is an unconditional  love for their children.  I don't care what they do or what they say or how many times they may hurt their mother's feelings, mother's forgive and forget.

Your mother will also!!

Answer 8

Say this to your mom,

"Look, I understand that was foolish of me. I do regret saying those nasty words to you, and I should be mature enough to prove to you that you are better than what I have called you--you are my mother, and I hope you can be here for me to help me mature and grow in many more ways? I love you..."

XoXo,

- <3

Answer 9

Call your mom up and say "I'm sorry for acting the way I did." :) from what I read it sounds like you already have an idea of what to say.

Answer 10

You know, its normal for your mom to feel that way when her child does something that she does not expect they would do. But in the end, it can still be resolved. She loves you that is why she got "disappointed" with you as what you said. Just remember when you are about to make an apology to your mom, pick a time where there's only the two of you so you can talk things over, approach her in a very kind manner and of course don't forget to smile. Just simply say sorry and apologize for what you unintentionally did. okay? Show your mom you love her by hugging her afterwards. For sure everything will turn out right after that. God bless you and your mom! :)  

Answer 11

say that you're sorry and that you will do that again and actually dont do that again.

then she will be happy  

Answer 12

tell her everything you just said.

Answer 13

I have made the same mistakes with my mother, and if you can find me a daughter that hasn't, I would call them a liar. This is one of the unfortunate side-effects of the mother daughter relationship. Because the things were already said, you must accept the fact that you can not go back and erase them. You said them, especially when you were in an angry and emotional state, so there must be some hidden truth to it. You should take a day without speaking to really evaluate what you said, and why you said it. Try to delve deep and see if perhaps there are some unresolved issues there. If so, I suggest that when you do finally decide to sit down with your mother, person to person, you tell her in a calm and adult voice how you are feeling and why. Remind her that you love her and that you simply let your temper say whatever you could to hurt her. This is a great learning experience for you, and for your mother, and if nothing else, your relationship will grow and move forward.

Answer 14

Say. "Mom... I'm sorry for what I said. I feel very stupid and I know it was foolish to do."

Answer 15

just right out and sya it I'm sorry for what ever u did or said to make u regret doing it or saying it

Answer 16

How about "Sorry mom I was way out of line".  That seems to break the ice.

Answer 17

shes your mom...if youre sorry say it simple as that...she loves you and will forgive you