How can I ask if he likes me without making it obvious?

Question

I want to know if this guy I know, who I kinda like, likes me. How should I ask him without actually saying DO YOU LIKE ME?

I am in my late 20s, so no immature 6th grade-like answers please & thanks.

Answer 1

You could have a friend ask.

Or say something like

'are you looking for a relationship'

or

'what do u think of me'

Answer 2

Just ask, it would be awkward but you're both adults so he should give you a straight answer.

Answer 3

I have no answer.But I just wanted to let you know what a good question you have just ask. I am in my thirty's and am having the same problem.Hope you get a great answer...Good luck.

Answer 4

What I am about to write, is the hard Truth and nothing but the Truth and no guy will ever tell you this. I mean well.

I am sorry, BUT do you like me, is a question that only a very inexperienced woman, who don't know squat about men will ask.

So he says, yes I like you, (because men never say no to decent looking women no matter if they like them or not) you go on a date, third date you hook up, third month you ask where is the relationship  going, third year you leave him because he won't commit, and you're all frustrated, angered carrying all that in the next relationship.

When you ask yourself where you went wrong, you will never - ever guess or beleive that it was actually with the " Do you like me" question.

Never approach a guy the way you would want a guy to approach you - ever. We are different human beings. Even when we're very shy, we want clues but not the actual punch-line. We want to do the chase, we want to have that anticipation (does she want me, no...yes..) we want to be the ones that finally got you to go out with us after few times being turned down.

Now, never turn me down cold and flat. Turn me down in a way that it will make me come after you again.

Be where I can see you, be there for me but not as a best friend, but as a woman. I will see you, trust me. The moment I first saw you I already evaluated you if you could be "dating material' or just a hook up. Read my body language, how I interact with you gives you the answers to your questions.

You really need this site that I am sending you,

first one is "18 signs he is interested in you" ,

http://love.ivillage.com/lnsunderstandme...

and the second one is about "Understanding men".

http://love.ivillage.com/lnsunderstandme...

Answer 5

I'm going to have to agree with "Dre' B" just straight ask. I don't mean to insult you but asking for a slick way to ask him is immature. Simply ask... the worst that can happen is he says "no", at which point you move on.

Answer 6

Honestly I would just ask him if he would like to go get lunch sometime and if he seems real into it then most likely he does. Plus this will give you time to talk to him and feel him out. Let him know you think he is a really sweet guy and you'd like to hang out with him more, if he is interested in you he will agree immediately. That way you are taking the stress off him asking you if he does like you. And if he doesn't then things won't be weird because you didn't come out with "I like you, do you like me" it's a simple friendly guester

Answer 7

idk

Answer 8

Why are you so insecure? When you find someone attractive, just tell them.

" I think you're attractive, would you like to get some coffee sometime? "

It's simple. Life if short. There are 6 billion people on earth. If he says no, move on. If he says yes, who know what may unfold?

Answer 9

you could say something like..so what do you think of me?