How can I be a feminine guy?

Question

I've kind of accepted the fact that I am never going to get a girlfriend at all, so the next best thing would to become a girls best feminine guy friend. Tell me what can I do, as a guy, to become more feminine.

Answer 1

Giving up sexual prowess as a masculine male is a sign of being the feminine guy friend...so congrats your halfway there.

You started getting there the moment you denied even trying to become close to what is called an "alpha male".

Maybe you could try g*y s*x atleast once to make you more feminine.

@Karen - Being yourself is a senseless social dogma...Ive seen total geeks turn into badboys that get laid like crazy by changing & evolving who they were into the person they wanted to be.

If being yourself isn't getting you all the b!tches...then I think it's time for an upgrade.

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Answer 2

so your not homosexual?

you like girls, but you accept the fact that you will never date a girl, so you rather become a girls friend than a boy friend. ok, I was trying to understand what you wrote by re-writing it to myself.

here is my answer: sometimes girls like men who do have a feminine side to their feeling (not a homosexual), this would be a different issue. being a open minded guy who uses his feminine lyrics to seduce a woman its very differently than being a homosexual. I think that a guy who uses feminine wordy techiques to attract a woman it very s**y. my ex boyfriend (who know is my friend) is very in touch with feminine side by saying beautiful things a woman like to hear from men (believe me, this is considered a flirty guy). I think the reason you havent found a girlfriend is because you havent been open enough to let woman know what you like about them. maybe if you tell them how beautiful they look and how amazing their eyes glitter in the daytime and sparkle in the night time, if you tell a girl what she wants to hear (all positive things that make her look beautiful outside and in) you will have a girlfriend in no time. Yes, u can be a girls friend and maybe if you slowly tell her things she like, maybe your girl friend could become more than your friend. so you get in touch with you feminine side by using it with words that will attract woman.  

Answer 3

I don't think it's impossible for you to NEVER get a girlfriend. Look, I may not know you but I think you're a nice guy with a decent personality. Don't put yourself down, find somethings about yourself that you actually like and try to start from there. The best way to get a girlfriend is to NOT look for one.

But...

If you want to be a feminine guy then I guess you could start being sensitive by writing and reading poetry, listening to bands that are more popular with the female population, take care of your looks (a little more than usual) and try to make friends with girls by helping them out and finding a common interest. Don't try to lead them on but be yourself. (this is really corny i know but when it comes down to it, being yourself is way better than acting like someone else anyway..)

I'm sure that someone loves you, all you need is time! but for now just focus on being yourself and see where it takes you okay? stay strong! I know you can do it! :D

Answer 4

private message me

Answer 5

You dont need to be fiminine to be a girls friend, like all my friends are girls.

Tips: Avoid them on their period.

        Dont answer their questions directly.

        Dont ask them about yourself they will try to spare your feelings.

        Dont ever say anything stupid because they will hurt you(emotionally)

      Never tell them your secrets until you get one of equal value.

Answer 6

d**n..you got issues to deny your own sexuality. MAN UP!!!