How can I be less shy and make new friends?

Question

I'm really a very outgoing person except when I'm around people I don't know.

I recently joined my high schools vball team and I want to make friends but I'm too shy.

don't say 'be yourself' I already know that.. I need real advice.

were all freshman and around 14-15 years old so I don't know why I'm intimidated...

Help?

Answer 1

Well first find someone that you might have something in common with.

Since you guys are all on the same team

most likely everyone will act friendly/

Just try to break from your comfort zone.

Once you do it'll be a BLAST!

Trust Me!

Answer 2

Just start out slow with one person. Not whole team. You will learn your skills with one. And when they see you are approachable, it will smooth the way for you.  I used to be like you too!  I didn't have lots of friends, but I did make a few.  I was scared in not being good enough complex, besides timid. It hurts to be alone in school.  God bless and take one small step at a time.

Answer 3

I think you the easiest way would be to help with their volleyball skills.Like if you see anyone who's have a hard time then offer your help and advice and then it will soon lead to a conversation... Or if you see any of the other girls sitting off to the side go over and talk them and ask them whats wrong and then offer your advice... Or act like youre upset or about something or not feeling well and then the gals will start coming up to you asking u if youre okay... well good luck!