How can I be more charismatic?

Question

Why do some people have that 'it' factor and they just make you smile and want to like them? how can I be more charismatic?

Answer 1

First, study a charismatic person.  Then, copy him or her. Charisma isn't something that is just natural.  It is cultivated.  If you notice or watch charismatic people closely, you will see that they go out of their way to make sure they are liked.

Or, put another way, they bend over backward to please you or try to make you happy or to make you smile.  Are you willing to do that?  If you are, then you too can become charismatic.

Its kind of neat that you would like becoming charismatic!