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How can I be more emotional physically?? (I don't mean sexually)

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I've just started dating this girl... we got really intimate really early (no s*x though)... we've decided to slow down a bit since then (just date for a while... i.e. get to know each other better before jumping straight into a committed relationship). One of the reasons for this is that she thought she might have freaked me out by how strongly she was coming on (she made the first moves on me). Truth is, maybe she did... but I'm past that anyhow. As a result she complained that I didn't seem to show passion or intimate emotion on my face and I suppose my body in general... (I've always been the type to say what I feel instead of showing it). I'd REALLY like to change this... how can I show her how I feel (I really do like her quite a bit). I don't want to seem robotic or anything...

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  1. I CAN HELP YOU!!!!!

    okay do little things like

    1 hold her hand

    2 play with a strand of her hair while cuddling on the couch

    3 when driving in the same car keep your hand on her knee, hold hands, rub her shoulder while driving

    4 every girl loves flowers

    -some form of touch is usually percieved as a sign of affection, i think


  2. You can cuddle and do things you enjoy together that are non-sexual but intimate--hand holding, hugging, watching a movie and cuddling etc.

  3. Hold hands, put your arm around her, pay attention to her, let her know you care about her.

  4.   The easiest way to really let her know, is to be honest to her and talk to express your feelings and tell her how you feel, otherwise there will always be that spacer in between you two which makes her feel uneasy about getting close to you, and likewise.  I'm one of those guys too that I doesn't show a lot of emotion, but the best way for me to show my girlfriend that I care and my emotion is to be there for her, talk to her, and grow with her because truly all relationships have to grow/mature in order be strong and secure.

  5. Practice chanting in your head..and do it 10 mins a day

  6. If you really like her, then you can at least try to show it

  7. While talking to her you can put your arm around her shoulder.  Hold her hand once in a while.  Touch her hand with hers during conversations do it naturally not noticably.  Touch is the answer any kind shows affection even if it doesn't show on your face.  Good Luck!  I must say that she sounds a bit pushy.  

  8. I bet if you tell her how beautiful she is everytime you see her, get her flowers or little gifts every now and then she wont be complaining.

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