How can I be popular my sophmore year of High school?

Question

I'm 5foot,140 pounds (which i think has a lil to do with my popularity prob),I have a good personality. Im fun, spontaneous, outgoing, opinionated, im a good speaker, I have lots of friends that vary in the cliques. Im friends with a lot of guys in my grade and when I ask they all seem to say I'm really good looking. So what I need to know is,FROM GUYS AND GIRLS POINTS OF VIEW, what is it that I can do, to make myself popular, more appealing, and pretty much make the guys head over heels for me. That would be my ideal for starting off my sophmore year. Im open to all suggestions..thank you so much for your time.

Answer 1

not be yourself or else you wouldn't be asking this question

Answer 2

umm... I would seriously just stick to being yourself. Its when people start being fake that they lose their friends. It sounds like your pretty popular as it is.

Answer 3

I agree to just continue being yourself.  Please don't be consumed with being 'popular' as it's more important to focus on one's grades, join some after school activities that one feels passionate about and then the friends will come :)  The school activities can help establish a common ground between you and others too.  

Please steer clear of reckless behaviors to 'fit in' or self-medicate such as Not using inhalants ("huffing" fumes or gas), not playing 'the choking game', not having a water-drinking contest which can cause 'water intoxication' and not car/truck surfing.

More info on the dangers of huffing:  http://www.inhalants.org

The choking game dangers:  http://www.deadlygameschildrenplay.com

http://waterintoxication.org

If wanting to get to a healthier weight for one's height, the 'american dietetic association' has some tips for healthful eating as well as perhaps a listing of registered dieticians (RDs):  http://www.eatright.org/

The new Food Pyramid guidelines:  http://www.pyramid.gov

Answer 4

Instead of being popular, you really should focus on your grades. I'mam not saying that you should go home everyday, lock the door to your room and hit the books, just dont waste your time on making friends when you're barely passing your classes. I hope you get the idea of what I'm saying. Also if you can maintain your grades and be popular then do it.

Answer 5

being a junior i know...

OUTGOING is all you need, just get involved in sports, and be an "a" student

AND SMOKE!!!!! JOKING, lol

well i became popular that way, kinda

Answer 6

make as many friends as possible and be nice to everyone.. that will make u popular for example: just go up to everyone and be like hi my name is (insert your name) do u like school this year? or whatever! just start a convo with everyone .... believe me u will get there :)

Answer 7

Dont try and be popular try and get good grades, Im not a parent, Im not old, Im not a geek, and I did not get good grades in school, but trust me I wish I would have.

Answer 8

be yourself and you'll be the happiest

Answer 9

I would dress and act like Paris Hilton because it seems to work so well for her popularity. Well at least it will make the guys like you just most the girls will still hate you. You need to forget about being popular with everyone and just be yourself and you should do fine. If you try to make everyone happy with you it won't work and you'll just make yourself miserable.  

Answer 10

Honestly you shouldn't focus on being popular whatsoever. Popularity should not measure your sucess in highschool at all. Trust me I went through highschool trying to "fit in" and all I could do was just be me and only me. I learned that school was for learning, being the true you, having fun while knowing who you are, and not trying to "keep up with the Jones".

Study and work hard, because in the end after it's all over, highschool popularity is not going to mean anything when it comes time to finding responsibility, and the good decent jobs later in life.

Answer 11

Do you want people to worship you or what? You're already lots of things that others wish they were, so what's the problem?

What you really need is to help others and not focus so much on yourself. Be a friend, be helpful and kind, and everyone will think you're great.

Answer 12

What's wrong with you. I agree councilm . Most popular girls in high school get pregnant before they can graduate. If you still want to be popular, I would say      "good luck with your pregnancy".  

Answer 13

Your going to school for all the wrong reasons. Good luck with that pregnancy, mz. popular.

Answer 14

you are a disgrace y in the world would u wanna be populary thats cheating on yourself thats bad cuz populary kids all they do is get other kids scared and well much more u are wasting your time forget popularity thats only for celebrities u are not a celebrity so stop ok god made u like the way u are dont destroy it!

grrrrr u arent and never will be popular thats bad! respect yourself