How can I be straight?

Question

Please don't tell me to just live with being g*y and that it's normal.

I'm not afraid of unacceptance or rejection because I am g*y.

I promise I have my own motives and reasons that wouldn't interest you, but PLEASE, does anyone have any idea of how someone can stop being g*y?

Answer 1

Just try asking a girl out, see what happens...

C'mon!

We all know girls are hotter...

;D

Answer 2

There is no such thing.There is NOTHING WRONG with being g*y,do you hear me!? Its exactly like asking why a straight man can't be g*y.It is just the way it is.  

Answer 3

I conducted a study regarding the debate between nurture vs nature, and interview a considerable amount of homosexuals.  To my surprise considerable amount informed me that at a certain point in their lives they were molested or just tried, and that they wanted to do what you are saying  "stop being g*y".  

It is my opinion that you should evaluate why are you g*y.  Do you feel is an innate tendency or just a moment of confusion.  Better yet, your concern is of great importance, and I suggest you go shopping for a therapist that is sensitive to your concern and help you explore and reach your desire goals.  

Good luck and best wishes to you.

Answer 4

yes

by living a lie

Answer 5

well heres the answer you dont want..just b urself..u will never b happy if u spend ur whole life pretending 2 b something ur not!

Answer 6

theres actually some kind of medication or remedy certain scientific research says that being homosexual isn't by choice its kinda like a birth defect or a difference withing the chromosones of genes created or passed from your parents and history of your family but idk if the pill passed usa fda rules and regulations it still might be in experimentation and you could also try to not give into certain urges ignore certain thoughts  but yeah hope that helps good luck with your situation hope it turns out for the best

~Cory~  

Answer 7

By dying and getting reincarnated as a straight person. Otherwise you're stuck. Idiot.

Answer 8

there are websites out there that can help- that use prayer, meditation. I do not know the names of any of the websites but remember seeing them on a show- oprah or a talk show.  

Answer 9

It's not certain how much biology plays in sexual orientation, but a common theory being researched is that much of it has to do with testosterone in-utero.

In short, all research says your orientation is fixed.

I myself am bi, and yes, many times in my life I would give anything to be straight. Recently my brother and his girlfriend have been roommates I have forced to move out because of their intolerance of my being bi, and my friend moving in who is g*y.

You need to ask yourself why you want to be straight. If you only find members of the opposite s*x arousing, you are straight.

If you only find members of your own s*x arousing, you are g*y.

If you find members of the opposite s*x arousing, as well as members of your own s*x, you are likely bi.

Simply listen to your body's response. If your mind isn't comfortable with it, I would suggest some counseling.

Your body knows what it wants, you only need to reconcile this in your mind and learn to be comfortable and happy with who you are.

Answer 10

i don't think there are any techniques on how NOT to be g*y. I remember watching some show about a month ago or something. It was like a 20/20 or nightline show, it talked about how some people are born g*y. It's just in their genes or whatever.

Answer 11

OK SERIOUSLY?  This may not be the answer for you but let me share something with you...... My very best friend was a g*y male. He was very secure in his manhood,very s**y man but he was also convinced he was g*y ,had always been and would always be,it wasn't a choice was how he explained it to me. He later found out he was hiv positive and had hep b,thanks to his s***k ex life partner who claimed he had cancer and had to return to his family in his final days.Anyway he was really becoming ill and the family minister visited often,we visited church with his family and to make a long story short before his painful death God healed him from being g*y. He sat and talked with me about the life he could have had and the cloud of sin he felt had been lifted off him. It may sound crazy but he even looked different. I'm not an in your face bible thumper but you can be freed from that lifestyle and all it takes is trusting God and being sincere in your request and prayers. Best of luck! Think about it!

Answer 12

You can always accept the fact that you are g*y and make a personal decision not to act on it..........That doesn't mean you have to fake being straight.........you have to be true to yourself and it would only end up hurting a partner/wife and any children you might have with her.

I have a g*y friend who has chosen not to live the g*y lifestyle because of his religious convictions.  I'm sure it's not easy for him but he has been doing it successfully for the past 4-5 years.  He doesn't date men or women but has a huge circle of friends who love him to bits and are really supportive.  He is a loved "Uncle" to many of our children.

Answer 13

well , you can start by asking a girl out on a date !

have you ever been with a girl ?

were you inappropriately treated by a relative or stranger during your childhood ?

just ask a total strange girl out on a date & see how it goes !