How can I be sure that his?

Question

I have a 6 month old baby and I am a single mom , and my babies daddy says it not his but my baby looks a lot like him everybody tells me so and I want to make him get a DNA test but I am 90 percent sure and the other 10 afraid because here in Puerto Rico if the DNA test proves that is his he has to pay it an if not i have to pay it but i don't have that type of money.Plus when my baby was born he came to my house and told me that that was his baby that he felt it was his and that my baby had his family's traits , after that i told him that we should have a dna test done and his mom told him no I wonder why ? Don't you think its weird? If you where sure that the baby was not yours you will do the test to prove that it was not yours?

I'm 18 and he is too.

Answer 1

So, if there's a chance the baby is not his, you must have other suspects on your list??  How many other guys did you sleep with around the time of conception?  I should think you'd want to establish paternity, as someone should be contributing to the cost of the baby's care.  Also, you'd want to know if there are any genetic issues from the father that could affect your child latter in life.

Answer 2

Well if you were s******g with more guys than him then you have a lot to be concerned about.You put yourself in this situation.Get the test so the REAL father can be found and he can pay child support.No more s*x until you are married hon.