How can I become the kind of man with the ability to take control of a situation?

Question

I would like to change my insecure and indecisive personality, and become the kind of guy who can take control of a situation when needed. How might I go about doing this?

Answer 1

To borrow a lesson from the Dog Whisperer (not that you are one but hey, it fits)...own the situation.  You have to tell yourself that you know what to do, you know what result you want, and you know that it can be done.  Start small...be firm without being mean...good luck!  Remember:  CONFIDENCE IS s**y!!!!

Answer 2

Be assertive. Don't sit down and take c**p (but don't be an a**hole). Be proactive and take intitiative. Don't allow yourself to be intimidated no matter what the situation.

Answer 3

well you can ask someone for help and training go online look up stuff read a book mabye or just run for president of clubs or leaders and try to take charge of things more and im sure you will get the hang of it sometime

Answer 4

There are companies that specialize in brass artifacts. You might want to stop by and see if they have any year-end close-outs on the oval-shaped items.

Answer 5

i am a woman, but i know men that know what they are talking about seem to be able to take control. educate yourself. you cant expect to control a situation if you dont know what you are talking about. you can be firm in situations and stand your ground. dont be cocky though then you are just a jerk  

Answer 6

By not worrying so much about what others think. Gaining respect for yourself and realize that everyone has insecurities. Be yourself and if people don't like you, on well. i used to be shy, but you know, I decided why. I like myself and if someone doesn't like me, oh well. Jsut be how you are with your family and friends.