How can I better please my wife?

Question

Married in April. Christian couple. I was a virgin entering into marriage. I have a hard time last for more than a minute or two, although I try to take it VERY slow. My wife does not let me do foreplay for very long, presumably because i am just sexually frustrating her more. s*x was abused in previous relationships for her. I haven't had s*x in well over a month. Help!

Answer 1

Without trying to sound gross, have you tried to m********e before you have s*x w/your wife?  It is very hard for a woman when that happens but it does happen often to women.  Maybe you should try to look some information up on the computer on how to help premature ejaculation.  Maybe you should try to please your wife before you have s*x, but if she's anything like me the actual act of s*x is what she likes.  Try your best to solve the problem of premature ejaculation.

Answer 2

You could try giving her oral s*x, my wife loves it.

Answer 3

time for counseling

Answer 4

I believe that the best thing you can do is talk about it.  Be sensitive and listen more than talk.  I would let her talk as much as she wants so that she can get her feelings out and learn to trust.  Being a great listener is key.

Does your church offer counseling?  Perhaps you can attend together so that you will have a long happy life together.