How can I bring my husband back legally?

Question

Let me start by saying it almost scares me to ask this because of the hateful responses that I see given to other people.My husband came to this country illegally about 14 years ago. I had two sons prior to meeting my husband we have had an additional 2 children during our 8 years together Here's an abbreviated story. My 11 yo boy has had problems (trouble at school, lying, etc.) pushed limits and fought with my husband. My son was disciplined and spanked with a belt (not beaten). My son has used the threat of "go ahead and hit me I will call the police" I am a mandatory reporter through my job and thought that I would loose all my children over this spanking with a belt. So I reported the incident. My husband was arrested and charged, then INS dropped him off in Mexico.Can I get him home legally with pending charges? What do I do?We need him home. It has been five months now, and I don't feel as though I have gotten anywhere. I am now a single mom of four and struggling any advise?

Answer 1

i'm afraid you chose to report him so he will have to stay arrested/wotever until his time is served! your gonna have to pay for a good solicitor and take it up to court and explain it all then see what the judge says . x

Answer 2

He is home.Why don't you join him.

Answer 3

I would have spanked the boy too if he told me that!

try an I-212

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http://italy.usembassy.gov/dhs/uscis/ser...

Approval of a waiver application requires a finding that the refusal of admission to the United States of the immigrant alien would result in extreme hardship to a qualifying relative. In general, a qualifying relative for the purpose of a waiver may be a spouse or parent who is a United States citizen or a lawful permanent resident.

All claims of extreme hardship must be supported by documentary evidence or explanation specifying the hardship. Family separation and financial inconvenience, in and of themselves, do not necessarily constitute extreme hardship. Therefore, it is important for the qualifying relative to describe and document any other claim that might be a hardship.

Extreme hardship can be demonstrated in many aspects of the qualifying relative’s life such as:

HEALTH - Ongoing or specialized treatment requirements for a physical or mental condition; availability and quality of such treatment in the applicant’s country, anticipated duration of the treatment; whether a condition is chronic or acute, or long-or short-term.

FINANCIAL CONSIDERATIONS - Future employability; loss due to sale of home or business or termination of a professional practice; decline in standard of living; ability to recoup short-term losses; cost of extraordinary needs such as special education or training for children; cost of care for family members (i.e., elderly and infirm parents).

EDUCATION - Loss of opportunity for higher education; lower quality or limited scope of education options; disruption of current program; requirement to be educated in a foreign language or culture with ensuing loss of time for grade; availability of special requirements, such as training programs or internships in specific fields.

PERSONAL CONSIDERATIONS - Close relatives in the United States and /or the applicant’s country; separation from spouse/children; ages of involved parties; length of residence and community ties in the United States.

SPECIAL FACTORS - Cultural, language, religious, and ethnic obstacles; valid fears of persecution, physical harm, or injury; social ostracism or stigma; access to social institutions or structures.

Any other situation that the applicant feels may help meet the burden of extreme hardship.

The evidence supporting the claim of extreme hardship should be as detailed as possible. Keep in mind that the hardship must be to the qualifying relative - not to the applicant.

Have you spoken with a lawyer? I would advise you do so.

Answer 4

Your worried about a man who hit your child with a belt and is an illegal criminal? and you think both of these things are okay, no child should have been "spanked" with a belt, if spanked he should have used his hand, that was child abuse!!!!!! You should get your priorities straight!! He will be banned for 10 years, there is nothing you can do to bring him back, that is something you both should have worried about for the last 14 years!!!