How can I change things up in the bedroom?

Question

My husband and I have a good s*x life, I am just worried that if it keeps going this good, it will eventually get dull. What are some tips of things that I can do once in a while to keep things "interesting" without bringing someone else into the picture...if you know what I mean.

Answer 1

For one thing try not only varying positions, but different kinds of stimulation. For instance, one night make love using only genital to genital contact, one night use only hands, one night use only oral stimulus. How about a toy night? Warming lotion always feels good. Anal?

Have you done it in every room of your house, on the beach, in the car, in the back yard with a fire? Watching p**n?

Maybe someone else isn't necessarily a bad thing either!

Use your imagination!

Answer 2

Try showering together, giving each other sensual massages.  Feeding each other fruits or foods with dips, using the dip on each other.. tickling each other with feathers dusters.  Playing games with things like plastic cuffs.  If you have a good imagination and you guys don't have hang ups, there are many things one can do.  Don't do things like take pictures or movies,  they might fall into the wrong hands.

Answer 3

Not to sound weird or anything, but I always thought it was cool if a girl gives head while the guy sleeps, and he wakes up to that. Makes for a very funny day, and he won't be mad at you, that's for sure. Maybe just little things like that, which may keep him surprised.

Answer 4

just like you said, "keep it interesting".

After 24 years of marriage to my lovely bride, we still have a VERY enjoyable "bedroom life".  Read up on things, look at things online, try things that sound fun, but don't get hung up on "having" to try something. I'm not going to go any further into suggestions on a public forum, sorry ;0)

Good luck, at least you have the right attitude, that's half the battle!!

Answer 5

if you keep ur pubic hair, surprise him by getting a brazilian! or try experimenting with foods. eating different things off each other. or, why keep it in the bedroom? why not the kitchen? or the garden? or in a meadow?

Answer 6

Obviously whatever you've been doing is working....so just keep it up. And don't let things get sloppy, boring, or stop rolling.

"If it's not broken don't try to fix it."

Answer 7

I don't have an answer I only wish my wife cared enough about me to try to connect with me on a physical level. I know you women need a connection on a emotional level in order to want to engage in s*x, but it works kind of the same for a man only in reverse...if a woman doesn't want to make the effort for us then we find it hard to connect in an emotional with you...it's the way both are wired.....GOOD FOR YOU FOR CARING ENOUGH ABOUT YOUR MAN'S EMOTIONAL WELL BEING:)

Answer 8

just try different things, talk dirty, dress up mabe in a s**y costume, surprise him, uhh and mabe get a belt and whip him lol

Answer 9

I cannot believe you could even mention bringing someone else into the picutre.

Here is a novel idea: Respect.

Answer 10

You might try these if you haven't already, movies(p**n), toys, role playing, see what fantasies he might have, that you would be able to do for him, remember always, talk about what you both would like and he will end up giving you ideas himself.

Answer 11

toys and movies (if your comfy with that).  and take it out the bedroom sometimes.  works for me....;)

Answer 12

Talk about your fantasies and then go from there.  try some backdoor fun if your into it.  i recommend relaxation, lots of lube and going slow.  good luck!

Answer 13

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Answer 14

New paint, drapes, re arrange the bedroom, re do your bedroom...buy more candles. Get yourself some s**y nighties. You speak that it will eventually get dull, it will.  

Answer 15

to tell you the truth i really dont no

Answer 16

Talk with him about things he might like to try. Maybe you can try role playing, or play dress-up. Maybe discuss your fantasies and see if there's something that both of you would enjoy. Good luck!

Answer 17

Lots of things.  Surprise him with a new toy.  Tie him up.  Show up in a hot new outfit.  Try it on top or from behind.  Get the kama sutra and go through all the positions.  Try some edible oils.  Do it in the shower.  Wake him with a bj.  Wear a wig and tell him to call you "Wanda." Watch a s**y movie together.  Pretend you're making your own movie and take turns being the director.  Let your imagination go wild.

Answer 18

i agree with sweet girl. don't always do it in the bedroom. how you do it could be changed too.do it in a closet or somethin

Answer 19

Hey,I wouldn't start changing anything yet.If it's good for you both now then you must be doing something right.So I would say keep doing what you're doing now until things start changing,then try to think of something else.

Answer 20

A really good idea that me and my partner enjoyed was the introduction of a boardgame called monogamy..... it can be bought off the Ann Summers website or from their stores. Believe me when i say it will do wonders!!! Enjoy.