How can I change this? ?

Question

Hi,

I am now single and a mother too of a gorgeous little boy Caden.

However, I have realised that I have too much about men on my mind!

My relationships have alll been rubbish - abusive partners and my ex, Caden dad, walked out 2 days after I gave birth to be with a friend of mine!

I now have a guy who is interested but he recently seperated and much older than me and I only like him as a friend. I have an ex who I like but is just a friend. A guy I see now and again and just **** buddies and another ex who was a complete ******** who now wants the whole works of marriage and kids but who I am wary of!

I just don't know if I should get with the guys who want me or if they so not right for me and I just need to be single for more time.

I no idea!

I mean I 26 and worry that if don't get a guy now I never am going to!

Lx

Answer 1

Dont sell yourself short,,,if your not happy with who your with, dont waist your time,,,or his.

Answer 2

I've recently got with my girlfriend who is 26 and has two kids. I think you should only enter into a relationship if you are completely sure it's right as you don't want to confuse your boy. There's no rush to just get with anyone. If it's the right man, he'll understand that you'll need to take things slowly. You don't seem to keen on any of those men, and the key when you have a kid is stability for them.The right man will come along.

Answer 3

Stop worrying about whether you will ever find a life partner or not and concentrate on the life that you have now with your precious son. And stop having relationships with people that you obviously know are unsuitable. You only devalue yourself when you do that.You will find the love you seek when you are comfortable in your own life and skin and probably when you least expect it. Good luck!!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

**** buddies? and your a mother, fooking h**l  

Answer 6

Relax i'm NOT knockin LOL