How can I convince my dad that I need a horse?

Question

You see, I need a horse to complete my life. I have many reasons and its really hard to explain. You see, I grew up with animals my whole life. Then I moved with my dad. And we live in the city, so now I have no pets. The only pet I am allowed is a hamster. I took riding lessons, and I go on trail rides frequently, but I feel empty.

I have studied horse for a long time, I even helped my friend who is a horse trainer when she broke her back with her horses.

I feel that a horse it what is going to complete me. (I always follow instinct).

Well I believe that.

We'd be boarding it here: Only pasture board. I already have $300 saved up and boarding is really cheap there! http://matsquistables.com/boarding-stables-horse-rentals.html

Any advice would be great.

Thank you.

Answer 1

Tell your Dad that you need the horse to experience more on horseback riding and techniques, coz you have a plan to be a good professor.

Answer 2

$300 won't go very far at all. The horse alone will probably cost at least three times that much. Boarding is never cheap and your dad won't like the extra expense. Maybe you could convince him to take you riding once in a while, but you don't need to buy your own horse just to feel "complete."

Answer 3

$300 dollars will barly cover board for a monthe, let alone a horse.  I hate to tell you it, but you can't buy a decent horse for that kind of money.  Maybe try leasing a horse, you will see the responsbility of owning one.  A lot of people say they know the responsibilities before they get a horse, but it's really different once you experieced it.  Think about it, what happens if your horse go lame or hurts itself, you would have to pay like $10,000.  Try thinking about it, sorry if you get upset, but it's the truth.  

Answer 4

grow up, finish college, get a good job, and get your own horse?

your parents know what's best for you and maybe if you prove you can take care of your stuff and do good in life (ie school, work, ect) then maybe that will be enough to get your dad to let you have a horse.

Answer 5

usally ur parents wont let u hav a horse because they can be very hard to look after and its alot of responsability thery can also cost alot of money etc. worming every 8 weeks, there feet done every 6 to 8 w, all there rugs, saddles bridals etc. my parents didnt get my a horse untill they new thats wat i was goin to stick to and was not going to leave it up to my parents.

hope that helped u.

Answer 6

Wow what a coincidence to find someone from abbotsford here! lol...well ya i'm from abbotsford myself and trust me a horse will ask for a lot of time, and a lot of  money after a while...so if i were you don't get one until your older, have a job, and are your own boss. If i might interest you in something...why don't you start keeping pigeons? they're the same just that you can't ride them...they aren't much of a work and are very cheap and easy to keep..and no not those city birds...nice fancy pigeons...i have them myself (30 to be exact) and i love them...i live in the city myself (by rotary stadium) and no one care sif you have them or not, plus it's very exciting seeing them fly high in the sky...if you're interested i can help you get started...email me at [e-mail]  

yes theres a dot after brar...alot of people don't see it lol  

Answer 7

it's not your decision to make hunn.  see horses cost a lot more then just 300 dollars.   and you wouldnt be the one paying for the horse.   plus you have no where to put a horse trailor or anything.  so how can you have a horse without any funds or without a place to ride him.  

would you liek to be a horse locked up in a stall all day long while your at school or while your at work??  of course not.   so girly lets be realistic.   you have no money, no place for it, probably no time for it (after a while).   what you need to do it stop worring about having a horse and focus on something more important.   like your schooling.   thats' the only thing you need to worry about.   after you graduate and get out on your own you can get a place of your own and you can get a horse then...

Answer 8

I always wanted a horse too growing up but my parents just could not afford it. I took riding lessons when I could, and my parents always knew where they could find me (at the closest barn to my house) playing with the horses in the field. I am now 33 and just bought my first pony for $600. I've only had her now for three weeks, but achiving this dream that I have had since I was about 10 yrs old means I appreaicate it so much more.....

And trust me their is a bigger difference in owning a horse than just taking lessons. I'm assuming your still young, you love horses but your going to be getting into relationhips and wanting to hangout with your friends....don't make horses your fulltime job yet, until I'd say your in college or  moved out of your parents home. You will be more clear about who you are, sounds like your still not sure. Horses are not there to complete us. What if you buy the worng horse and it has a bad personailty. If you must have a horse do a half lease, and it would be good to do it after you have your driver liscense so you don't have to rely on your parents so much. Good Luck

Answer 9

Look I'm sorry but if your Dad says no it's no. There is a lot more to the expensives then just boarding. What happens if the horse gets seriously ill or injured. Vets are expensive. Not to forget vaccinations, shoes, dentistry, tack etc.

Nobody needs a horse, you want a horse. What happens if you find out this horse doesn't fill the gap when you get it?

Answer 10

$300 isn't going to get you far with buying a horse, but have you considered the option of leasing one? Even a part lease would give you the opportunity to have one, while cutting costs slightly. And then if your Dad realises you are dedicated and willing to put in the tiime/effort you can work up to getting one of your own.

As long as the horse is fine with it, keeping it out at paddock is a good option though. My horse is in a shared paddock and is doing great, although i still have to feed her twice a day.

Answer 11

OK I ALSO GREW UP AROUND HORSES MY WHOLE LIFE AND MY MOM SHOWED WHEN SHE WAS YOUNGER ALL MY LIFE I KEPT SAYING I WANT ONE I WANT ONE SO ON AND SO FOURTH MY FIRST BIT OF ADVICE WOULD BE TO TELL YOUR DAD THAT YOU WOULD FEEL COMPLETE WITH A HORSE, SECONDLY JUST KEEP ASKING THATS WHAT I DID FOR 3 YEARS AND FINALLY GOT ONE AND THEN SOON AFTER GOT 2 IT WILL ALL WORK OUT BUT AS IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ALREADY KNOW THEY ARE LOTS OF RESPONSIBILITY AND WORK BUT ARE THE BEST ANIMAL IN THE WORLD. GOOD LUCK

Answer 12

Tell your dad you want to half lease for six months so you can prove that you want to stick with it.

Answer 13

I agree with Jenna.  To really prove to your dad that you have a passion for this,  start with a shareboard and lessons.  Wanting a horse and owning a horse are very different things.  I've had horses my whole life.  It was a love hate relationship.  It took up all of my time, my money, my families money and still does to this day.  Not only do you need a horse, but you need tack, at least two of everything, supplies, brushes, sprays, supplements, boots, wraps, blankets for all seasons, a vet, a farrier, a trainer, lessons.  They need their feet done, teeth floated, vacinations.  Then comes the questions, are you getting a horse that can survive living in a pasture?  Will it get along being out with other horses?  Can it handle changing season?  Do you have someone who can help you choose the right horse so that you don't get scammed?  All of these things are part of your job as an owner not the barns responsibility.  Try a shareboard and see how your dad sits with that.  Once you have proven it's for you, then talk to him about getting your own horse.  I do suggest, little by little, start purchasing supplies.

Answer 14

worried about taking care of your pets and pet care issues...

refer to this website

http://care4petz.blogspot.com/

it has got tips and information on every aspect of pet care

Answer 15

u dont seem like u know alot.

did u know horses need shoes every 7 weeks

thats like

$80.

then u have vet bills

and riding lessons since u dont do alot of riding

feed

ect

$300 is going 2 leave u broke.

Answer 16

Ok, first off, $300 might buy you a second hand saddle if you are lucky, but not a half decent horse who you will be able to ride. It won't get you anywhere, you might be able to board your horse for a week or so, but what about its feed, hooves being trimmed, and if it gets sick then who is going to pay for the vet?

Living in the city and owning a horse is not a good idea. Everything about it is more expensive. Boarding a horse is expensive, you have to drive every day to see  the horse (and the cost of fuel these days!) and i just don't think a horse will be happy in the city.

I've also grown up with animals. I had a pony, but when she died it was one of the saddest things that has ever happened. I think you'll feel emptier after it dies than what you do now.  

Consider yourself lucky that you get to go riding regularly - I haven't been riding in years and you have no idea how much it hurts after i rode nearly every day for a couple of years. Be happy with what you already have, because its a lot more than what some other people have.