How can I convince my lady to get an abortion?

Question

How can I convince my lady to get an abortion?

Answer 1

I don't believe you should 'convince' her. Imagine she does it, maybe against her own beliefs, you'd forever regret it!

Everytime you have s*x, you should be prepared to possibly become a father! I am pro-choice; however, I have never been faced with that situation, and I don't know if I could do it. For you as the man, it might be a bit more of an abstract - you don't feel the changes in your body, the hormones kicking in that make you feel protective of 'it' growing inside of you almost immediately.

Both of you have to sit and discuss this together, no 'convincing' involved.

Answer 2

if you did want your lady to be pregnant then you should be using a condom. how can you kill your own baby. look at this website http://www.abortionno.org/Resources/pict...

you could give your baby up for an adoption

Answer 3

What are your reasons? If she or the baby has health problems, then you should discuss the options with her and make a decision together. But if it's just a case that she became pregnant unexpectedly and you're not ready to be a father, then you should've thought about this before you had s*x. If she's decided to keep the baby, then you have to take responsibility. She'll need your support, both through the pregnancy and to raise the child; do the right thing here. :)