How can I cope with these problems?

Question

Ive been looking for a jobs since forever. Im totally broke. Me and my boyfriend dont seem to understand each other that well. I dont have any real friends that I can trust. Im just really sad and depressed about all of this.

Answer 1

You need to change the way things are first. If you are surrounded by negative people and issues, you can expect that this situation will remain as is.  My advice: surround yourself with the cleansing white light of the Holy Spirit, on a daily basis. Pray, think positive thoughts.

God Bless and good luck

Answer 2

I feel your pain, i remember when i didn't have a job either and i had no one to depend on.

It's very stress-full, but you just have to hang in there, be strong and just keep telling yourself that "it could be worse, and someday, it has to end, SOMEDAY there will be a light at the end of the tunnel."  

Have faith, you will make it.

And i could be your friend, it doesn't take much to make friends on-line.

Answer 3

The first step in coping with your problems is knowing that before these problems, you were here and after the problems are gone, you'll still be here.  

Look at what you're qualified to do job-wise and check in the neighborhood or farther if you have to, talk to people you know or are acquaintances with about your need and you'll get a headway.

Being broke is something that happens to all of us especially when we don't have a job and is sure to be taken care of with your first paycheck.

Now, being in a situation like yours makes you need a boyfriend that understands and that gets along well with you.  It's not always the other person's fault, so you may have to go out of your way a bit to get along better with them and if that doesn't work, you need someone else who can help you through these stressful times.

Not having real friends is always a very big problem and sometimes, you may have to turn to family, like sisters, cousins, aunts, mothers and such like because without friends we can count on, our lives get miserable.  I can be your friend but I'm too far away to be a close one.

Depression and sadness are a state of mind and you have to bring yourself out of it, woman!  Don't make the way you feel get determined by what you go through.  We all go through things and what makes you a winner in the end is how you take it, as a winner and you'll win.

Like attracts like and if you're upbeat always, upbeat things will come to you, I promise.

Answer 4

Make a list of all the good things in your life.

write it down.

Here are some of mine.

1) have a home food clothes

2) my health is ok good

3) have all my original fingers and toes

4) live in a place where I feel safe

5) have relatives that are still alive even if I don't like them too much LOL

give it a try

Answer 5

Im sorry that has happened to you and millions of other people. Go to your local health dept and or social service offices. Ask for free mental health care. there is an organization called FAMILY SERVICES MENTAL HEALTH CENTER. They may see you for free.. and you can get medications to help your depression.

Keep your chin up and keep looking.. Maybe volunteer places to let them get to know you it may help get a job later.

good luck

Answer 6

Hun you have friends on here. where do you come from ? keep asking questions about this. if you feel sad find something to make you happy. See a doctor . you can always trust them and believe you me they are on your side. life doesn't have to be all about work. you don't say how old you are but can you talk to your mum or dad about this or even someone where you live? Trust someone, there are lots of good people in this world.

Ps you can always add further details by clicking the edit button on the question. Hug

Answer 7

the way i look at life is there's a bright side to everything. i'm alive, i'm not in prison, and the fbi aren't looking for me. everyday i turn my life over to god to get me through the day and to accept whatever comes my way. and i thank god for a great day before i go to bed. financially the last two years have been tight. the job i had for 8 yrs. went outta business so i had to start from the bottom again. next week i go to court for bankruptcy because i don't have the cash flow i used to. everything in life is a test and god wants to see how we handle it. also on the highway of life we want to get off at this exit but god has a different exit in mind. hang in there it will get better. good luck, i'm in your corner and i'm rooting for you. =)