How can I deal with stress @ home

Question

I am a 27 byear old mother of 4, ( 9 y/o boy, 6 y/o boy, 5 y/o boy, 3 y/o girl) and ocassionally my 10 y/o step son comes along, not mentioning the 16 year old niece that came for summer vacation. It is really stressful, the laudry the cooking the cleaning gets out of hand.

I am sure that there is someone out there that probalyu went trhu the situation and handle it better. Can Im please have your advice on that.!

Answer 1

You have to take a day for yourself. Turn the kids over to hubby. I know that may seem crazy but you have to do it or you will go insane. Take a day to relax. Get your hair, nails and toes done. Go for a full body massage. Massages used to be expensive but Massage Envy has made it reasonably priced. One hour for 39.00 for first timers. Check and see if there is one near you www.massageenvy.com. They are the best. I am a member. I know this will only be one day but you know what it will help the stress of everyday. Good Luck

WOW I give you all praise mom of 4, 1 step and a niece.

I am a 34 and a mother of 1. She's 23 months old. And honey believe me when I tell ya She is my first and last! Good Luck

P.S. She keeps me at Massage Envy

Answer 2

get away, take  a vacation alone

Answer 3

You need to set rules/chores for each and every member, even the little one!  Even just the very smallest of jobs.

Answer 4

Exercise and making time for yourself is #1 for stress relief.  Make a set night every week to do something romantic and fun without the kids, even if you have to trade babysitting with another couple you know.  It doesn't have to be expensive.