How can I deal with this woman and her son?

Question

My mother in law is an evil woman I sufferd alot because of her and I decieded to cut all the ties between me and her.she has 2 faces .she acts very nice when she talks to me but behind my back she says alot c**p about me to people and to my husband (her son). one day I had a fight with her and I caught her telling my husband that I am crazy and he should pack up his stuff and leave me (we have 2 kids together) and when I insulted her back .. my husband did not do or say anything to stop her like usual what should I do or how can I deal with him and her because I am very exausted???

Answer 1

I askd my mother to talk to her son about hes crazy ways thinking that would help and she jump down my throat telling me i should move back and live my husband knowing that my husband needs help what a ***** just dont talk 2 her no more shes stressing u out cause i will never ever talk to mines again just hi and bye  

Answer 2

you tell him you are getting tired of him letting his mom talk to you the way she  does and either he does something about it like talking to her you are his wife and shes his mom but he wont be having her disrespect the mother of his children and his wife she needs to know that you are a part of his life as well as her and she needs to get herself some business and quit disrespecting you.   he basically needs to sit her down and tell her mom look she's my wife and i love her and you cant keep disrespecting her the way you do its causing major stress and drama my way and we need to find a way to fix this problem between you 2 fast  

Answer 3

The old mommies boy game.Don't make him chose as that will leave problems in your marriage.If he wants to see her let him go and if she is saying bad things about you than tell her tp prove it.Tell your husband to hire a P.I. if he has to you have done nothing wrong.

Answer 4

Most all MILs are crazy b^tche$. My MIL will lie right to your face and you know what my husband has caught her in those lies and is quickly learning about the real monster that she is. She is nice to your face but will tell stories about everyone behind their backs.  

Answer 5

u have to ask ur self if ur husband is worth all the excess baggage. for better or worse and all that c**p

Answer 6

"This woman and her son" are you for real, Sunshine, that you can't even refer to him as your HUSBAND?

Look. Don't come between him and his mom. That's his mom. He loves her. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you, too. Don't make him choose.

You can't cut all ties between you and her because you have your husband in common and she is grandmother to your grandchildren.

Stay away from her as much as you can, but don't interfere with their relationship or you may end up the one alone.

Answer 7

OMG!  I TOTALLY KNOW WHERE UR COMMING FROM SERIOUSLY. MY MOTHER IN LAW IS THE SAME WAY.  SHE TREATS ME AND MY SISTER IN LAW THE SAME WAY.  MY SISTER IN LAW ALSO HAS THE SAME PROBZ ITS SO SICK.  HE NEVER BACKS HER UP WHEN MY MOTHER IN LAW TALKS c**p TO HIS WIFE. HES SUCH A d**n MAMAS BOY. IM SO SICK OF HER.   IM DONE WITH THIS WOMEN.  A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO SHE GOT INTO A FIGHT WITH MY SISTER IN LAW SHE TOLD HER UR A LOW LIFE;  WHY DO U DO THIS WITH UR KIDS THIS AND THAT.  THEY WERE IN MY HOUSE WHEN THIS HAPPENED.  I GOT FED UP AND SAID LOOK.  IF SHE WANTS TO DO THIS IN FRONT OF HER KIDS THATS HER BUSINESS OTHER WISE STAY OUT OF IT. THEN SHE TURNED ON ME.  I TOLD HER TO GET OUTTA MY HOUSE. BUT I TOTALLY KNOW WHERE UR COMMING FROM.  UR HUSBAND NEEDS TO SAY SOMETHING TO HIS MOM.  IT HAS CAUSED SO MANY PROBZ IN MY SISTER IN LAWS MARRIAGE TO HER HUSBAND SHE ALWAYS ASKS HIM WHY DONT U EVER TELL UR MOM ANYTHING WHEN SHE SAYS STUFF ABOUT ME.  SHE HATES HIM CUZ OF THAT.  IF HE DOESNT SAY ANYTHING TO HER IM SORRY THEN U SHOULD LEAVE HIM THATS NOT RIGHT.  CUZ I KNOW IF THAT WAS ME AND MY MOM DID THAT UR MY HUSBAND I WOULD SAY SOMETHING TO MY MOM.  ALSO WHAT DRIVES ME CRAZY IS TO TOP THIS ALL OFF MY MOTHER IN LAW STILL SEES HER GRAND KIDS AFTER THE WAY SHE TREATS MY SISTER IN LAW.  I TOLD MY SISTER IN LAW U NEED TO STOP SHES NEVER GONNA CHANGE UNLESS U LET HER KNOW WHAT SHES DOING TO U GUYS SHES ALWAYS WINNING THATS WHY SHE KEEPS DOING IT.  AND AS FOR ME.  I DONT CARE WHAT MY HUSBAND SAYS SHES NOT SEEING ME OR MY CHILDREN WHO KNOWS IF SHE TALKS BAD ABOUT ME IN FRONT OF MY KIDS. THATS WHY I DONT WANT HER AROUND MY CHILDREN. SHES SICK!  WHAT UR DOING IS THE RIGHT THING.  TRUST ME!  I WISH U THE BEST.