How can I detach from him?

Question

Okay well, my best friend is a guy. He lives in Canada and we talk a lot. I havent been on my account where I IM him on so we recently started talking again. We always reassure each other how we love each other, will meet again one day, etc. I feel so attached to him! When he's not online and when he doesnt answer his phone, I feel depressed. One time he blew me off completely for no reason for about a month. I got over it but im afraid it might happen again. I dont know what to do! Everyday, I wait by the computer for him to sign on! Im attached and im afraid he's going to hurt me again, what can I do about this and how can I detach from him?! Please, no silly answers. Thank you.

Answer 1

try and find people 2 like

or tell him the truth.  

Answer 2

Get away from your computer.  Find something else to do otherwise you're going to continue to get upset.  Men and women are different.  Women get very attached very easily where men don't.  What means something to you means something totally different to him.  You need to realize this because you are reading "too much"  into the situation.  

He obviously isn't sitting by the computer waiting for you (i'm not saying this to be hurtful) but he is out enjoying his life and other friends and you need to do the same.  Just because you are best friends doesn't mean you have to be around or  talk to one another all the time otherwise you get bored with one another.  Give him a bit of distance...it will be good for him and for you.  Then when you get together again you will enjoy one another's company.