How can I do this.? Is it normal.?!?

Question

kay so I'm a little over 9 weeks pregnant with triplets. im only 15 years old and living with my boyfriend and his family. both his parents work and cause its summer they didnt put her in daycare and wanted us to watch her. we agreed we would cause we are living with them.. but now I can't do this anymore. yesterday we took her to the zoo and I picked her up lots and carried her and I had a really bad back pain. but my boyfriend works fulltime so I stay home with her all day. I dont mind it but like can I get her to stop being so clingy. she is 4 and she always wants to be picked up. anyadvice.? someone please help.!

and second of all is it normal to have really bad pains in my tummy.? it feels like there are needles in my tummy. and in my back.? is it normal

Answer 1

If you refer to her as big girl it can encourage her to walk by herself. The pain is your uterus stretching. It may hurt a while. Good luck!

Answer 2

You really need to tell them that you can not be doing this, you should not be lifting anything that heavy AT ALL

Go to your doctor to get a certificate stating this so they can understand. Triplets WOW, congratulations.

Seriously you need to stop this as you may be endagering your children.

Answer 3

Just find something for her to do solo.. like get her a barbie house.. or colouring books with pictures that intrest her.. or set her up with a movie by her favourite characters.

If she wants to be held all the time.. just tell her know. Tell her only babies get carried and big girls walk.

Be creative with her.

Answer 4

Tell her NO. You don't HAVE to pick her up. Pain is not normal. Get checked out!

Answer 5

I'm sorry, I didn't understand your question. Who did they not put in daycare? Do you have a daughter already or is it there daughter? Well, if it's there daughter, and you are living with them rent free, I can see why they don't put her in daycare. But, if you are having back pains you need to explain that to the parents. That's not normal.  

Answer 6

stop carring her around just tell her you cant and besides i dont think its safe to carry a 4 yr old around when your pregnant and especially if its multiples your back will hurt and your stomach is stretching so it will hurt a little talk to your doctor and let him or her know