How can I do this right?

Question

Okay, well, in my last question, I explained about a night I spent with a girl (in a non-sexual way, heh) and how when we were both drunk we made out and spent the night together. We broke the ice on Wedensday and hung out, with other people around, for the past few days. We shared a comfortable silence in a mate's kitchen, and according to everyone I've talked to she likes me, and the feeling's mutual.

I tried to keep my distance for a while, as not to make her feel intimidated, and I want to ask her out right now, as she's on AIM. I want to actually ask her, face to face, but I want her to get the impression tonight, as I can then ask her tomorrow. How do I go about doing this?

Note that I'm not the best talker, and cannot escalade on the conversation much. I've already tried the "Oh, you like that band?" approach and it didn't get that far. How can I go about this, and do it right?

Thanks for any help, I appreciate it alot.

Answer 1

you should ask her to hang out at night sometime, just tell her youre bored and are gonna take a drive in the mountains or somethin and would like some company? in the car, especially when its dark its a lot easier to open up and i feel like it takes off the pressure. so just put on some music and drive...

after the drive you guys can just sit in your car and talk, you could also stop at a 7/11 or other conveniance store and buy a soda so you have something to hold, also helps with the nervousness lol. and thats when you should go into "the talk."

what my boyfriend did that i loved was he said "listen, i dont like to play games, so im just gonna be straight forward about this and hope for the best. i really like you, and i was wondering if you felt the same way."

be confident and dont show that your nervous!!

good luck!!

Answer 2

just mention how she is pretty, and then be really flirty, and then ask where she will be tomorrow, and then be like " i want to ask u something", she will prolly know what it is, if u have been flirting around, and if u say shes pretty...