How can I draw attention to the popular girls?

Question

Hey, im no wanna be but this summer in camp my bffs left me. how can i get them back? whas some advice that will make themcome back to me? thanks!xoxo

Answer 1

You shouldn't want them to come back to you. If they left you in the first place, they're not your real friends.

Answer 2

ok i dont want to be hard in this but they are not your best firends not even friends if they left you with no reason cuz that means they were using you for somthing or just killing time with you but anyway here are some things to get them back

first see what are the things they like and try to show them that you like it

second try to do somthing that they cant do so they become the one who wants to be friends with you, you know try to amaze them with anything.

third try to act as it doesnt matter to you if they became your friends or not.

these would help you a little cuz thats all i can tell you because i know nothng about you or them or your personal character. hope it helps anyway.

Answer 3

If you fought with your friends over something, try having a nice conversation if that doesn't work tell them how you feel. Let them know that you are hurting because of what happened and you want to be friends with them again. If they don't accept your forgiveness they were never really your friends. Only a true friends will forgive you even if it wasn't your fault.

Answer 4

They aren't your "bffs". I say s***w 'em and hang out with people who want to hang out with you.  

Answer 5

you say they are your bffs? That is not true friends...not even Real!! If they wanna be your friends just wait  

Answer 6

I agree that they aren't real friends.  People are strange as the doors song goes :)  There is really not much that a person can do to get a person to bring back and rekindle their feelings for the other especially when there is more than one person, know what I mean.  Please try to focus on your academics and consider joining a couple after school clubs that feel passionate about.  New friends will come by as you may have some common ground with the clubs and classes.

Please steer clear of reckless, destructive behaviors to 'fit in' or self-medicate including not using inhalants ("huffing" fumes or gas) which can cause brain tissue loss, seizures, limb spasms, hearing loss, bone marrow (fatty inner lining of bones) damage, other organ damage or death after "just" one time -- 'the choking game' (includes forced hyperventilation) which can cause a stroke ("brain attack"), seizures and death -- a water-drinking contest which can cause water intoxication from depletion of sodium/salt levels in the system which can result in body tissues swelling including the brain or 'car/truck surfing'.

For more info on the dangers of huffing:  http://www.inhalants.org

The choking game dangers:  http://www.deadlygameschildrenplay.com

http://waterintoxication.org

Answer 7

Don't even try. You'll become friends again and then it will only get worse. It's a vicious cycle. I'm at the point where now I'm switching schools my junior year. Get new one's. I wish I had. Those girls that you probably have sooo much fun with and have everything in common with aren't worth you time. If you are so disposable to them now then it will only get easier for them to throw you away. They aren't cool. Seriously get new ones.

Answer 8

Well, if they left you in the first place, isn't that a reason NOT to want them to come back? I could understand it for revenge purposes (i.e. you getting them to come back to you and then just dumping them like they did to you) but why do you want these people back if they are going to treat you like that?

Answer 9

i agree with emma. dont even bother if they left you, i totally believe in second chances, but if they were real friends they wouldnt have left you in the first place, and if you're lucky they might even come back to you.

Answer 10

Look the best when you go back to school, and don't act whinny.

Maybe get tanner, and toner.

And invite them to do stuff, but make it look like you are having fun with other people too.

It does help if you have the super cute bf :)

Answer 11

forget them if they left you once they surely arent real friends, and if they really are the "popular girls" i kno it might seem simpilar being their friend but they usually make u feel like c**p and like i said before they leave u once then that usually means theyll only b ur friend again if theres sumthing in it for them.

Answer 12

y wld u wanna be there friendz if they left u....so they cld leave u again?? NO!! i say get knew friends.