How can I enjoy my vacation without feeling lonely?

Question

I'm going to Varadero, Cuba during reading week for the third time but this time by myself. The first time I went with my friend and she ended up ditching me for a guy that she met there. The second time I went with a few girlfriends, but there was drama almost everyday. I really loved the country so I decided to book myself a trip to not only escape the cold weather but to take a break from everyone. I'm 22 years old and sometimes my shyness makes people think that I'm s****.. I was wondering, when I get there what would be the best way to make new friends with the tourists and the locals without looking crazy? And in case if I don't make new friends what should I do in order to not feel lonely? The first time that I went, I met a nice cuban family and we still keep in touch, but they have there only lives so I don't want to impose. Any advice?

Answer 1

alcohol does the trick for me.

as long as i have a 12 pack of beer, a good television, and a comfortable bed to chill on...........i am never lonely.

Answer 2

It is always out of my comfort zone to travel alone.  However, many people do and have a wonderful time.  If you would like to see the Cuban family you met previously, but don't want to impose, why don't you try calling or emailing them and tell them you are going to be in Cuba.  If they want to see you, they will extend an invitation without you having to assume anything.  

While you are there, be observant about those around you.  Are there other people who are alone?  Maybe those people would enjoy having someone to talk to also.  Strike up conversations with EVERYONE around you.  Make a habit of talking to people around you: the lady next to you in the check-out lane, the child in line to buy a movie ticket, the man in the car next to you at the red light.  Always have a smile on your face, it will make you more approachable and you will feel better.

Answer 3

Wow cuba i hope you have fun. any way to answer your question don't allow yourself to be lonely!!!! you have Cuban friends there make sure you let them know you are coming trust me i am sure they don't want you there feeling lonely. they might even set up some attractions that you all can go too. also try looking for some Cuban lounges or clubs or even sped some time at the beach.  Its OK to be shy but try to have some fun and really try to link up with your new Cuban friends!

Good Luck girl wish i was there!