How can I ever marry if I still love and miss someone else?

Question

He left my life and no longer communicates with me. I am afraid I will constantly keep missing him and loving him thruout my life. If this continues, I am afraid I will never be able to truly fall in love again and perhaps might not even marry. (it would be wrong to marry someone when I still love and miss someone else). So does it mean am doomed for life to remain single?

I can only truly & ethically make a fresh start when his love LEAVES me. Am I supposed to just wait more and more and more till one day I no longer miss him? Love for him follows me in my heart. What should I do?

Answer 1

Find someone else, you'll quickly forget

Answer 2

get in touch with him you might find out that your not in love with him and its normal to miss people.

Answer 3

Dear Zeenia,

Sure seems that way, doesn't it!

Well, I've got news for you.  You will move on in your own good time, and fall in love, probably more than once, get married, have children, and fondly remember those "romances" of many years ago.

I've been married for 42 years.  I still think about my first serious girlfriend from time to time.  I even called her after four decades of no communication to see how she was.

I got a reception that one normally reserves for their shoe, right after stepping in a pile of dog excrement.  It was cold-hearted and ugly.

Moral, let sleeping dogs lie.

At your age, you are in love with love.  You will outgrow this and life will get back on track soon enough.

Fall back on this old saying: "Time heals all wounds, and wounds all heels!"

Answer 4

dont worry you are going to fall in love sooner or later and about your ex boyfriend your never going to forget him hes always going to be part of your life.

Answer 5

I feel for you because I've felt the same way before. Time heals all things. When you liest expect it someone will slip into your life and dazzle your socks off and you will forget all about the past I promise!

Answer 6

THERE ARE CERTAIN LOVES IN YOUR LIFE THAT YOU WILL REMEMBER, BUT WITH TIME YOU LEARN TO LIVE YOUR LIFE AND MEET OTHER PEOPLE THAT YOU WILL LOVE. SOME YOU WILL LOVE MORE THAT OTHERS. NOT EVERY PERSON WILL OFFER THE SAME TYPE OF LOVE. THAT'S WHY EVEN THE MOST UNIQUE PERSON CAN FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES HIM/HER. LIVE YOUR LIFE AND THAT SPECIAL PERSON WILL FALL INTO YOUR LAPS. WITH PATIENCE AND WISDOM COMES GREAT BLESSINGS AND REWARDS.

Answer 7

dear Zenia

        surprisingly m in quite same condition right now.......... u hav to be strong enough to cure ur wounds.. ''LIFE WILL FIND D WAY''

   its very easy to say but not easy too do but belive me ask ur heart do u can really get back him? only u can get that answer

    then decided to move on with your life.....its true if u r really love with him u can never forget tht guy whole life.. but please try to make happy urself without him.

Answer 8

Look, I know its very hard to get over someone you loved, i've been through it. It took me a while, but honestly, you will get over it too. Believe me, you won't not fall in love with someone else, and you won't not get married, because you will. Haha, trust me it's hard for a couple of months but you have to move on, you have to do your best, and believe me once you do, your going to look back and it will always remain a memory.  

Answer 9

when you find "the one" you'll know it. You'll ask yourself why you wasted so much time pining away for someone that cant love you the way your new love will. You will eventually be able to move on, it may take a long time and you may go through a lot of frogs before you find your prince, but when you do it will be worth all the dues you've paid. I believe God gives us the opportunities of going through heartache so that when we find the real thing, we appreciate it even more.

Answer 10

MOVE ON!!

YOU CAN MOVE ON!