How can I feel at home ?

Question

Im Swiss, but I have lived in Chile (in south america) nearly my whole life. The problem is Im so different to everyone here.. Im nearly 16 years old and never had a boyfriend or really good friends.. for people that have been or are in the same situation or similar situation.. what can I do??

Answer 1

I'm honestly surprised that you don't have any good friends. Your unusual situation (Swiss but living in a South American country) would seem like an ideal talking point to use to introduce yourself to other people.

And I never had a boyfriend until I was 21, and I'm an Australian living in Australia! :P

Dating is all about finding the right person. It's not something that can simply "happen." My answer to both of your questions is just introduce yourself to more people. You'll eventually meet people whom you are more likely to get along with. Good luck!

Answer 2

you ve not been a friendly person urself, free yourself first make friend dont wait untill they come to you. as for boyfriend, i know someone outthere is interested in you. be friendly with everyone

Answer 3

How about forgetting about yourself for a while and volunteering to help those less fortunate than you?  It works.  Good luck.

Answer 4

Study people. Watch what they do and try to fit in. But most definaltey be yourself. Use your difference to your advantage and people will be drawn to that.