How can I find love?

Question

I am 15 years old and I need somebody in my life. I think i may be in "love" with two guys (musicians) but one of them is married and has kids & the other is getting married next week. They are celebrities anyway so they'd never fall for me. But I am "in love" with them because I would happily marry them and have children and stay the rest of my life with them. I was just wondering.. how can I find love in a "normal guy"? None of my guy friends would date me (alot have said so themselves), so friends are crossed out... I don't meet new people very often and I don't go to parties much. How do I find love and meet new people? Btw do not say school because I get bullied there and everyone hates me for reasons i'd rather not discuss. and all the guys hate me too and look down on me like i'm something they stepped in. Please help

Answer 1

My dear 15 year old. You are a child.  However you are interested in "love" at such an early age which means you are old enough to know the following:  1- One  can NEVER replace LOVE with s*x. Animals have s*x people make love. 2- Guys will tell you they love you but that doen's mean they do.  You have to know the difference. When someone loves you they will wait, until you are married.  Have you considered going to church.  Churches have youth groups and you could meet new people.  You need to take a deep breath, a couple would be better.  Close your eyes and imagine your perfect world.  Without the married guys and the ones that are engaged.  Make sure that in this world there is you and God alone.  Talk to him as if you were on the internet talking and asking questions.  Do this at night or any time you feel sad,  Do this for 21 days,  mark it on your calendar.  Talk to him every nite, ask himto work a  miracle  in your life, if you don't believe in God than ask whomever you believe in, GOD however has done wonders  in my life.  I strongly recommend it.  Try keeping your thought private.  Keep your mouth closed as much as possible. Don't do the talking.  Listen. Listen when you're out or in school, just listen.  I'm sure your answer will come.  Don't dispair, you will meet that special someone, but make sure that you work on yourself first so that special someone can have someone special too.  You are special.  You may have made some mistakes but guess what we all have.  If you read the bible there is a lady there her name is Magdalene, she made some serious mistakes she was with a married man and the whole town wanted to throw stones at her the town brought her in front of Jesus and they said, Master what should we do with her.  And he looked at them and said He who is free of sin let them throw the first stone.  And they all dropped their stones.  And Jesus told Magdalene, Woman go in peace.   So you see, what possible sins could you have committed at 15, you are just starting if you need guidance I strongly recommend someone an adult that can help you, someone you trust.  May you bein peace.  For what it's worth you have my love and I'll be praying for you.  God bless.  

Answer 2

Im 15..

Never been on a date,

Never had a boyfriend..

And I use to worry and say am  that hideous?

But I dont anymore...

I mean I think one day someone out there will love you for who you are, but if you rush it then you'll end up with some loser who doesnt care about you. Dont Stress..

The right guy will come along,,

Again, 15 is pretty young, and one day we will be married to someone and then say "Why cant I be single"?

Anyway :) Laugh it off.. Live..

Have Fun..

Be a teenager!

Like I have a celebrity crush on Joe Jonas..

But I think every teenage girl, has a crush on some celebrity, its just all part of the teen thing. :) Completely normal..

P.S IF YOU KNOW WHO THE JONAS BROTHERS, ARE LISTEN TO THEIR DATING ADVICE, ONES 20, 19, & 15 AND THEY ARE ROCKSTARS, AND LOVE BEING SINGLE :)

Answer 3

if you honestly believe you are in love with  TWO men you don't even know... you don't know what love is.

i know it's not what you want to hear.. but you can't always be looking for "mr right"  sometimes you just have to find a guy you get along with well... and you don't have to be in love with him.

  just fiond a good guy that likes you and you can be yourself around.

try doing something new.

TRY to go out and meet new guys.

its just something you have to do.

Answer 4

If you feel you are getting bullied you can move schools and try again somewhere else

and love is best when you are no looking

Answer 5

Slow down, you are only 15.  Love yourself first.  

Answer 6

don't look for love and it will come to you... i had been dating a guy off and on for 5 years now and i finally realized i loved him... he broke up with me 2 days ago and i was crushed but when i was never looking for love before that and when i felt that AMAZING feeling it was the best thing in the world and now i hate those 3 words... you're 15, i'm 16, we don't have to find love right now we still have a really long time... because you're first love will change you're life for forever and then when you get your heart broken you don't ever wanna love again but know you will.

Answer 7

First off, you're 15. You don't know what love is... yet. Love takes time... lots and lots of time, and it's more than a physical connection... that's lust. Love is far deeper than lust, and a lot of people (especially at your age) often get the two confused. you don't really know if you're in love until you really get to know the person... and I mean REALLY get to know them, and that takes more than a few months.

Anyways, if you wanna find love- don't go looking for it! ...and don't be expecting it! Just take each relationship day by day and just go with it- enjoy the ride! When the right guy comes around, love will find itself!

Just be careful not to be fooled by every guy to tell you he loves you! At your age, guys will just say, "I love you," just to get in your pants... trust me. if you JUST MET a guy, and he tells you he loves you after a week, it's most likely that... bullshit. Don't give your heart out to just anybody!

Be careful! And good luck!