How can I find out if he is really divorced...??? ?

Question

There is a guy that I have worked with for years (had a romantic relationship off & on for awhile). After he had a baby with his supposed ex wife I asked him once again if he was really divorced or not. He said he was but that they had s*x one night & she got pregnant. This has always concerned me. If he was really divorced that is fine but if he wasn't I want to know. I don't know if I would ever tell her what has happened but I just wanna know the truth. Is there a website or somewhere I can find out if they really did get divorced or not???

Answer 1

If you know the county of the supposed divorce, you can check the public records.  If they are divorced, it is a public record although the details of the divorce may not be.  Also, some counties do not put family law public records on the internet, you have to go to the office to look at them.

Answer 2

best bet is not start off any relationship with lies and suspicion-move on!

Answer 3

  He obviously has feelings for her whether they are still married or not so if I were you I would leave him alone.  The only other reason would be because he is a child support dodger and that makes him a pretty worthless person who you wouldn't want a relationship with anyhow.  Do you really believe they only had s*x once?  I am guessing here but I bet she kicked him to the curb and finally gave in and let him move back in thinking he would change after the pregnancy.  He is being dishonest with the both of you.

Answer 4

Ask him that you want to see a copy of his divorce decree. Ask his exwife, do your own investigation. Casually ask bring the topic at work get to know coworkers in HR department see if it'll spill that his status is divorce or still married.

Seems like you don't even trust him why even continue this realtionship is only about s*x. You have doubts then trust your insticts, be a better judge in finding a man other than the one you work with its not worth it.

Answer 5

Does he live with her I would think if they were married still they would live together have you ever been to his home.

Answer 6

Check his ring finger to see if it as tan as the rest of his hand