How can I fix the I talk to people?

Question

I was seeing a guy for a week and I accidentally said something to him like why are you so tired you don't attend school and only work from 7-3 well he took it the wrong way,I know it was a little inconsiderate but basically I just wanted to know if he was sick so i lost a great guy over my mouth and tried to apologize to him and see if he would give me another chance he did not I'm very sad about it.. Next my friends and co-workers I tend to tell people what to do or or when I do ask they take it the wrong way how can I fix these problems what kind of person should I see or book can I read to help me.

All my life I have treated bad I have epilepsy and I am on meds I try not to tell people that but medicine can change your moods once in awhile .I have not had a seizure in 4yrs.but kids in school would be mean and call me seizure girl and lots of other things so I'm very defensive I guess you could say.. I know I'm a good person i just need some advice and help.

Answer 1

i think if this guy wants to be mr. grump, you should let him alone.  who needs an overly sensitive tired guy in their life?  he may always 'get mad' over stupid little things and you'll get tired of it eventually anyway.

well if you want to try one more time, bring over a little peace offering to him.  a single flower, a stack of  homemade cookies wrapped up, or just a little 'i'm sorry' card.  if he's still crabby, let it go.

when talking with others, always try to make eye contact with a smile.  no one can ever misunderstand a smile.  good luck, dear.  you're worth more.