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my husband has been lying about finances since before we got married. In the beginning before we got married i said to him look -I dont have a lot in terms of $ BUT I do not have a stitch of debt - something I was proud of - worked hard to get there...he never made any mention of his debts and it all has come down in the last week.(we have been married two years now) a year ago we ran a credit check for something and it came up he owed 30K to the government - I went nuts - I knew nothing about this -but we worked on it and then he said he was working out the whole thing with a tax guy - paying it off in installments - every time I would ask about it he would say it is being handled... then cut to a year later- I am 7 months preg- the subject comes up again about the taxes. he confesses to me that he has NEVER been dealing with it AND on top of it he has not only not paid that one year but the last 5 years. I know need to take over finances from now on- but how do you get over this betrayal and hurt ?
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