How can I get a girl to like me?

Question

I'm not really outgoing and I can't change that. I'm in eighth grade (first day), and I want to get a date for the movies or something. Any help? Thanks!~

Answer 1

"I'm not really outgoing and I can't change that"

Here is your problem right here. If one thing is certain, it is that we can change ANYTHING we set our minds to.

And that is what I encourage you to do. You're in the 8th grade! You're not even grown up yet! So how do you know what you can and can't do?

So redesign yourself. Set your mind to it.

--Try to learn 3 new names everyday.

--Say Hi to at least 5 people between classes.

--Always find someone at lunch to talk to.

--Learn how to be agreeable, and when to take a stand.

--Become interested in other people. Put their comfort above your own.

--Dress yourself to be appealing. Carry yourself with respect.

--Learn to empower other people.

--Make sure you have a wide range of friends from all clicks.

You want a date, invest in yourself (get in shape, get good grades, make new friends, become confident in your accomplishments).

Then you'll get your date.

Answer 2

suggest:

*impres her with u musculature

*scoff her accomplishmants (this make her depend u

*inflict upon your rival to her attenttion

*kisses

*

Answer 3

Girls LOVE confidence. You have to PRETEND you feel good about yourself and what you're saying to a girl. Talk to her ..don't wait until she comes to you. But, don't be creepy about it. Just make her laugh or something and then ask her to hang out. Sometimes ********* is even good, but confidence should be enough even if you're faking it. :)))

Answer 4

urgg all these answers are the same old advice.

Let me give you something new...

1. DO NOT BE YOURSELF. BE YOUR BEST SELF!

2.It's true that girls like confidence but you cant PRETEND your confident you must BE CONFIDENT.

3.They also like people with HIGH energy but not too high. You'll just plain scare them off.

4. Try to think positive. Say good things to yourself not bad things. Ex: I will get a girl to like me!... NOT Ex: aww i'm hopeless. If you say bad things you will NEVER succeed.

5. Try working on your walk. It sounds dumb but it works. If you walk like you ENJOY walking (stand up straight and do a lil side-sway) Your body will look more attractive.

6. You gotta know how to talk. If nothing comes in mind try a energy drink. I know, I know, energy drinks are bad for you...

But it increases your energy and gives you stuff to talk about. And it gives you a "I don't really care about what they say attitude."

7. Dates... A regular dinner and a movie... NO dinner and movie dates (movie dates should be on the third date). Be more creative! Girls like creative guys. I'll give you a few date locations.

a. The observeratory or just looking at the stars: AHH! so romantic.

b. Cooking at home together: You guys could go shopping and go back to your place to cook. (if you dont know how to cook ask your parents.)

c. Zoo: WHO DOESN't LOVE ANIMALS?

alright this is all the advice I have to give.

I got tired of writing this answer and theres still some more advice in my brain If you need more just email me.

Have a nice day!

-Sniffles

P.S. about your outgoing problem. Can't help you on that you gotta find some motivation for you to go out.

Answer 5

umm flirt with her and make an effort to charm her?

Answer 6

flirt with her...make her feel special...hold the door for her when your going into school...talk to her ask some of your more outgoing friends for help    and after that ask her to go with you to to movies   girls like confidence   GO FOR IT

Answer 7

if i have one thing to say it's BE YOURSELF AND TAKE YOUR TIME.  Girls will love you and you'll love your self.  Talk to girls and get to know them as friends first.  I'm in ninth grade and even though i'm a girl i know what you're going through.  If you can't think of anything to say then mention that you like an article of clothing that she's wearing or ask how was her weekend.  I hope i helped!!

Answer 8

I would love any guy who held the door for me. You should try compliments and flirting. AND random dancing. That's totally hot!

Answer 9

Well that's good that your outgoing! Girls loooove the funny guys. But not gross funny. So don't be a p*rv. Mainly be yourself. Talk to her. And actually listen when she's talking. Follow her around (but not like EVERYWHERE that's annoying)Don't be afraid to ask her for help on something. I think it's kinda cute when a guy wants me to help him But don't act stupid. Like I said just be your self. Good Luck ♥

eDIT- Whoops you ARENT outgoing. Hmm well the same rules apply

Answer 10

Be yourself. Talk to her. Flirt a little.

Just whatever you do, don't overdo it. or she might get a little scared and then won't want to talk to you again ..

girls still need space.

but thats my advice. :P