How can I get a hot girl to love me if I'm not good looking myself?

Question

Is it possible? or is it against the laws of nature?

About me, I'm studying medicine, smart, ambitious, serious, caring, my goal is to become a multimillionaire...but my biggest weakness is that I have a low self-esteem. most of the time I think of myself as ugly..(but I'm not disfigured or anything)

I'm 176 cm, 64kg

What do you girls really love?

emotional security? attention?money for shopping? or just cute guys?

Answer 1

You sound fine as you are.  

Good looks can only carry a person so far, the deal breaker is good personality traits such as kindness and a sense of humour.

Don't mention money though, it will bring out gold-diggers.  Better to find someone who likes you as you are already.

Answer 2

A caring. lovely, respectful guy. It is more about personality, rather than physical appearance.

Answer 3

Whoever told you all females are identical to each other in their level of maturity, their superficiality, or in what they want in intimate relationships was lying to you.

Less attractive men hav a much easier time attracting women than less attractive women do men.

It's the self-esteem thing that's holding you back.

It may also be what you consider "hot" -- if all the females you consider hot are also airheads, that could be the problem.

Answer 4

Drive a new BMW :)

Answer 5

This is my opinion, all girls are different, but i love it when i can laugh with a guy, when i talk to him my heart starts pounding, when he always has time for me, lol. If your a nice & genuine guy, its just about waiting for the right girl. Why do looks matter so much to you? & yeah, it is possible to get a got girl to love you lol.

Plus, if she doesnt love you cause your not hot, shes not worth it anyways.

If theres any girls you like, just try to talk to them.. make jokes with them, and compliment them. The fact that your goal is to be a multimillionare might help too. =P lol

hope it helps?

Answer 6

Learn to listen.

First lesson(listen carefully).

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1. Looks arent everything.

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There...takes this personality parachute it should reduce the impact to your ego. =)

Answer 7

you need more help than anyone on yahoo answers can give you. Your main thing you need to fix is your inner game, feel good about yourself.

Answer 8

All you need is MONEY.

Answer 9

well, maybe to her you do look good, remember always be yourself, you dont need to change how you look, besides if she does'nt like you for you, just wait and maybe you will find someone that likes you for you. I pray the best to you =]

Answer 10

The first step is a higher self-esteem.

Answer 11

Emotianal security and attention.  Really if you treat a woman with respect and love,  you can't go wrong.  Best of luck to you.  

P.S. Beware of gold diggers!

Answer 12

It IS against the laws of nature because sight is our strongest sense, but there will always be exceptions.  You might get lucky.

I personally find sincerity, attention, and honesty to be necessary in any relationship.  I think that a multimillionaire would be obsessed with his money, his job, his stuff, and would never have time for me, since he already said his goal is a fat pile of money, not to be in a happy relationship with a great woman.  We'd also constantly have to go to benefits and c**p for the man's job, have guards, people messing in our life, we'd have to worry about getting robbed, blah blah blah.  Mr. Money Bags is not for me.

But don't worry, if you become rich you will at least get hot girls to have s*x with you.

Answer 13

all these girls saying they look at "personality" and "kindness" are lying to you, sure they might consider those things in high school but if you want a hot chick after high school or after college....you better have that cash in hand and ther pre nup in your pocket.

Answer 14

Hi!  I dated a guy I was not physically attracted to - he won me over with his awesome sense of humor and, frankly, persistence.  He made it pretty clear that he wanted to go out with me, and reminded me of that briefly and gently every time we hung out (had friends in common).  He made me laugh so hard that I couldn't help but be attracted to him, in spite of not thinking he was that good looking.

Good luck!

Answer 15

Why are you solely concentrating on a 'hot girl"?   I think women want someone they can share experiences with not just someone who values them for what they look like.    As I told my sons: character counts!

Answer 16

girls love guys who make them laugh, who listen, and who make them  feel secure and loved.

and work on your self-esteem- it sounds like you have a lot going for you!

Good luck :-)

Answer 17

Just b/c you think you're ugly doesn't mean you really are. There are some attractive people that put themselves down, so we don't really know what you look like.

Money is a huge attraction for a lot of people, but I don't know what else to say b/c I just know what I like.

I think it's possible for a not so good looking person to get a good-looking person, b/c it's extremely common.

Answer 18

Money

Answer 19

If you are rich and smart, you can get a hot chick, especially if you are also willing to let her walk all over you.

Answer 20

Money.

Just be sure to get a pre-nup.