How can I get away from my parents?

Question

I'm recently moved 500 miles away from my parents to be away from them and independent of their opinions and comments.

I love my new life ()away from my parents) with semi-regular conversations via phone. What I love most is having the opportunity to get off the phone and be independent of them when ever I feel like it.

Since I've moved, my parents have been constantly wanting to visit but I only allowed one visit to date and I am willing to undergo one other visit before year end. I don't know if it is due to my restrictions on them visiting but last night, my dad informed me that he and my mom are now seriously considering moving to the area that I relocated to (500 miles away from their home!).

I would like to tell him in the best way that I possibly can that I moved to get away from them. I'm really not sure how I could ever get this across to my parents without them feeling insulted. I don't want to insult them but I also don't want to live near them right now.

Answer 1

my dear please listen to this advice i think that your decision to go away from your parents is wrong when your father or your mother order you to do athing they know that this thing is good for you because life is hard nowadays my dear and we cannot learn it without the advice of our parents or adults and try to return again to your home and donnot say any word which hurt your parents because they love you thanks

Answer 2

Instead of visiting your parents you should have a short vacation with them at an interesting resort area.  As for them moving 500 miles to be near you-assure them that you are doing well and they have done a fantastic job in raising you to be self sufficient and independent.

Answer 3

well stand up.tell them the truth and say once a year is enough.it will hurt but you can be you!!!!

Answer 4

COME ON HOLIDAY IN KENYA AND THEN WHILE HERE TELL THEM YOU HAVE FOUND GOOD FRIENDS AND YOU WONT GO BACK.

HA HA HA

Answer 5

well you are an adult so just let them know how you feel