How can I get back the guy I like?

Question

The guy i really like kinda likes me. He also likes this other girl. Last year i asked him out and he said no. but he still likes the me and the other girl. The other girl has been trashing me but i dont want to give up the chance on this guy. also to add this hes like one of my best friends.......HELP!

Answer 1

if he's your bestfriend, it shouldn't be hard to talk to him??

talk to him on an aim or something so its not akward and ask him what he thinks about whats-her-face and if hes like, oh yeah shes so hot and whatev. then say, oh, oh well. and if he asks just be like, well i liked you alot but i guess not anymore.

hahaha and if he tries to push u to like him again, throw the whats-the-point? kinda thing on and see how he responds.  

Answer 2

sorry but you can do nothing at all.....it hurts doesn't it at leat you see what kind of girls he like ....i' still struggling a little hoping to see what kind of guy this girl i know....likes

Answer 3

You can have him as a friend it seems and no more as he has already turned you down.

Weren't you embarrassed by this ? I would never be able to face him again if it were me, but everyone is different.

Answer 4

Chances are he likes you, but in since you guys are best friends, he is afraid to date you because something might happen at the end and he is afraid it will hurt your friendship.  The other girl however can influence him by trying to get him to break up with you if you were in a relationship with him, because it sounds like she either

a) has bad character

b) jealous of what you have with him or

c) all of the above

Best thing is though you need to talk to him and see how things go from there.

Answer 5

Hmm... He likes the both of you?

WELL I guess if you really like him and want to go for it then suggest hanging out again. Thats all you can really do... Good luck.  

Answer 6

Honey, I hate to be blunt but it ain't never gonna happen. If he was into you, he would have asked you out. Now you're going to accept that he likes you AND the other girl? Not to mention he likes a girl who is trashing his supposed "best friend's" (you) name? I'd go find a new best friend AND a new crush!!

Answer 7

sounds like hes a man ****. and if he said no to your offer how can you get him back, sounds like you never had him. i say forget about him. most guys i know dont like to be chased by a girl they like, they like to do the chasing so hey ignore him and he may even like the fact that he has to chase you for a change, dont be easy

Answer 8

There was a time in my life where I liked two boys at the same. Both equally and both for different reasons.  He may like you both because he likes different things that each of you have to offer.  

You can't make him decide, he has to do that himself.  I would suggest you just be nice, continue to be his friend, and just let time take it's course.  

If he decides to go for her - that's okay too.  You wouldn't really want to be with a guy anyway unless he just adores you and only you...

Answer 9

sweet heart I know that you are better then that do not lower your self like that for him move on find you some body else that will love you and do you right he is not all that for you to be waitinh on him sweet heart find some body else there always some body for someone and its sounds like its not him. goo luck