How can I get daughters to respect mom ?

Question

I have 2 grown married daughters & niether respects me when the other is around telling me to shutup, calling me smart a$* & other names & i have had it the only thing is that if i say anything i wont see my grandchild , just the game that will be played . I do for these kids all the time I need to let them know they are hurting me ,,help

Answer 1

standard phrase they should have learned when frowing up "You have to give respect to get respect" if you get s**+*, that's what you get back.

Answer 2

tell them ur not a piece of trash or a dog. and u dont diserve this. tell them its not ok and ur not gonna sit there and take it. tel them u LOVE them and ur grand children. let them no. maybe they're saying this because u do things to upset them ask them. but its still not ok. let them no

Answer 3

Stop doing for them.  they are grown and married cut them loose.

Answer 4

yea...be nice to them.maybe it was something in the past that u did.anyways just talk to them about it..