I think my mother is bi-polar, or she has some sort of personality disorder. All my life she has never cleaned much, and our whole house looks like a dumpster (Literally).
She works maybe one or two hours out of the whole day (she's a stay at home mom) yet, I'm the youngest in my family and I'm 17. She doesn't need to be a stay at home mom when there is no children to take care of.
She hasn't worked a job in over 20 years, and my father is the only one that brings in the money for the family.
Whenever I walk past her, she is either eating, reading, watching TV, or sleeping (yes, during the day!).
But then it gets worse, when I see her being lazy she goes ape **** and thinks I'm harassing her, when all I'm trying to do is get her to clean.
If my dad is around, he says to stop harassing her. (He thinks I am just because she is yelling at me to leave her alone)
I don't know what to do anymore, she doesn't think she has a problem, my dad doesn't have the money to get her psychological help (They aren't insured) and my dad thinks nothing can be done to change her.
All advice is welcome.
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