How can I get her back ?

Question

me and my gf just broke up and we decided to still be best friends but she also said we could be friends that can kiss but that's our secret, now it has only been week since this happened and always when I ask her to meet me she says she will try and it always ends with her bailing ;/

we really used to love each other and we still do at least I do and she says she will always love me, I really want us back to gather

the reason for the brake up was because she wanted to be single for a time and said we could try relationship later

I really want us back together for she is moving for 4 months to another country after this christmas and if its not possible to get back to gather I would still like to be able to meet her without her be bailing on me ;/

Answer 1

Hmmm, maybe you should try not talking to her for a while, so then she will start to miss you and appreciate what she had. If you keep buggin her and nagging her, then she'll just want to distance herself from you even more.

Answer 2

Make your own decision, but follow these rules:

1. Is it legal?

2. Is it logical?

3. is it something you can be proud of?

those rules have not failed me yet.

Answer 3

Well what I would do is just tell her how much you love and miss her,and tell her how much fun you both had when you were together make her remember all the good times you had together,and if it's true that she still loves you then she might realise that she wants to be with you . Hope it goes well because it sounds like you to should be together.

Answer 4

You should really sit down and ask yourself - "Why does she want to be 'single'".  To me it sounds like she's putting some feelers out for someone else.  

Friends with "benefits" can really play with your mind.  

I recommend backing off.  If she TRUELY wants to come back to you she will.  

In the meantime - I wouldn't put dating out of the question.  You may actually find that "special someone". :)