How can I get her to be attracted to me??

Question

okay, I'm 16 and in grade 11 and I've been talking to this girl for about 2 weeks on the internet and I haven't met her yet, she's moving here in a day or 2 for school. She's a grade lower than me and I don't know if she is attracted to me or not. How can I tell if she is attracted to me?? And what can I do to get her attracted to me??

Answer 1

you can tell if she's attracted to you if she will seek for you by the time she entered your school. . or maybe she will want to go with you all the time. just be nice to her and make her feel that she's important or maybe the most important girl in you life next to your mom. trust me. girl's heart are easily won by guys who are true and they know they can trust. and also makes them feel important and beautiful. as for now, good luck to you, and may you win this girl's heart! =)

Answer 2

dude, either shes attracted to u or not. if shes not then u dont wanna change ur self to get her to be anyways. and physical attraction shouldnt have that much of an effect on whether or not she likes u. just be ur self

Answer 3

Hi, I'm almost seventeen years old; don't judge -  I'm in Grade 11 as well!! (The internet can be a scary place - so please be cautious)

The best thing to do is to remain in contact and simply allow the friendship to develop. Since she is moving to your school in two days, it will be a great opportunity to get to know each other in person. The best thing to do to determine if she's attract to you or not is watch her behavior changes. In terms of how she acts with her friends and then how she acts with you. Let it develop slowly and then just simply try to ask if she's interested in you. However, take it slow and permit her to adapt to the school and you. If you want to get her attracted to her, just simply be nice!!! All girls wants is a guy to be nice to her and like her for who she is rather than trying to get her for intercourse.

Best Of Luck Always!!!

- Amanda.

Answer 4

Just be yourself who says you are going to like her in person.  If she doesnt like you for you then it is not worth carrying on with trying to make her like you.

Answer 5

You can't make her be attracted to you.  Only chemistry will tell

Answer 6

if you havent met her then go to a public place to be safe.. do you play soccer?? if you do then ask her if she wants to stop round and watch you play sometime, just make sure you play your best lol! see where it goes from then and see how she looks at you its a key sign !

Answer 7

If she is interested in you, it happens automatically.

It is the question of time.

But never stop trying.

Answer 8

I hope you don't know her just directly from the web!

Wait till school starts when you can talk to her personally. It'll be easier to tell if she does or doesn't. Talk to her often and that may give more hints. If she isn't, I suggest you not to be all over her... Don't try to change to impress anyone!!

Answer 9

girls like guys with skills

nunchuck skills, bow hunting skills, computer hacking skills...

Answer 10

does she even know what you look like??

from a girls perspective, if she is in contact wih you she most likely is interested at least a little.

Answer 11

It depends on how you think she reacts when you chat with her. If you make her laugh and stuff its a sort of tip to show you that she is happy when she is around you. That is a good way to start a relationship. When you meet her be sure to tell her that it is you. Tell her that you are interested in her. If she answers me too then ask her to be your girlfriend. If she says sorry but I'm not, tell her I was joking and you should see the look on your face and start laughing so she wouldn't notice

Answer 12

1.Show you have self confidence.

2.Be really sweet and caring to her, but don't deprive yourself of your needs and keep self respect.

3. As I said before, be sweet, but don't make it obvious your desperate or the fact you ACTUALLY like her, let her guess and it will slowly make her more subconsciously attracted to you.

4. When talking to her, be happy and smile alot, be charming, etc etc.

as for knowing she likes you, it should be pretty obvious and if she does like you and not knowing for SURE if you like her back will drive her wild and eventualy she might come straight out and ask you. But make sure your with her often and have a healthy relationship going. I'll let the girls fill in the rest.