How can I get my boyfriend to want to have s*x more

Question

My boyfriend has a low s*x drive. He has been depressed a lot lately and I know his last girlfriend screwed him up on the whole thing. But our s*x is good when we have it... but I always have to initiate it and a lot of the times he says no or ignores my come ons. I am a really horny girl and I am having a hard time.

But the weird thing is, if I offer a bj, he will always take it.

Answer 1

Easy, start with a BJ............don't let him finish, just get him cranked up and ready to go!

Quit asking, just go down on him, get him good and hard, then ride him, (or if you get him excited enough, he'll be glad for the opportunity to ride you), ...............soon he'll get the idea that s*x can be fun!!!

Luck

Answer 2

I'd google: s*x methods

and cut back on the bj offers until he gets real with you!

Answer 3

Sometimes people who have been in bad relationships get really nervous and feel pressured or threatened subconsciously when they know you're trying to have s*x with them. Try just making out with him sometimes and not pushing it further, then maybe he'll feel more comfortable. He's okay with BJs because there's no pressure for him. He doesn't have to preform and he can't do anything wrong.

Answer 4

watch a REALLY erotic movie (or somethin that has a lot of s*x in it) and watch it together and rub his c**k a little (while hes still wearing pants)

Answer 5

i say you just keep it in your pants.

Answer 6

OMG! My boyfriend is EXACTLY the same way. Only even offering a BJ, he will decline. Now THAT'S weird. I found out that the depression and the weed with the anti-depressant pills was the culprit!!!!!!

I'm totally cheering you on with this. The way I found he would go for it was when he was most relaxed. Almost asleep, I offered to scratch his back and then other things etc.

I hope my added advice and suggestion of drug use with depression could help you more. At the same time, I hope not.

Answer 7

show him your ****

Answer 8

so ive gone through this same thing and it sucks, just dont ask to give him a bj, just do it, but stop in the middle of it and start touchin urself and makin him watch, just find ways to tease him and it should work...