Whenever I visit them, both my parents, who are elderly now, and my aunt keep telling me all about what a bad person my grandfather was, even though he's been dead for fifteen years! It's started to depress me seriously. They're so neurotic they would get mad if I said my baby niece resembles him a bit. My half brother would also get mad if I said that. I know he was a mean and rotten father to all his children, but he was actually a fairly decent grandfather, though distant. I just want to know the best way to tell them to stop telling me this stuff that depresses me. I'm a good listener but I feel like I'm always being dumped on.
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