Alcohol has always been a sore spot in our marriage, but I'm NOT using s*x as a bargaining chip. I don't mind if he has a couple of drinks a night, but it IS a problem because he drinks 1/2 a bottle of vodka or moonshine (yes, moonshine) in a night. He slurs his words, is a lot more rude than he is when he's sober and really clingy among other really annoying things, like grabbing my b***s or butt trying to "get me in the mood". He also totally reeks of whatever he was drinking that night. I feel really bad because I love having s*x with him, and when he's not drunk I LOVE it, but having him wasted during s*x makes me feel - well, awful. When I refuse him because of it, I feel bad too. He gets frustrated and a little upset when I refuse. I've tried gently letting him know that seeing him drunk turns me off, but he just rolls his eyes. He knows I don't find it s**y at all, but he still does it. I'm tired of it. I want s*x, but not floppy drunk man s*x. How can I finally get it through his head??
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