I recently married a new man, and my daughter was extremely hostile and nasty to him even when he tried his utmost best to befriend her. If he ever spoke to her, she'd ignore him, she'd move across the room if he sat next to her, once he brought her back a Happy Meal and she turned and fed it to the dog! The worst was when I was scolding her once, and he came up and defended her--she told him to shut up and mind his own business!
I had a good sit down with her, and she decided to change--and here is where the problem starts. Now when SHE says something to him, he snaps "Shut up!" or if she wants to go with him, he'll say "Nope, I'm not your dad!" Once she brought him flowers, and he said "What do I look like? A florist?" and tossed them in the trash, causing her to burst into tears.
I understand his anger at the nasty way she treated him, but is it really necessary to return the same treatment back? How to I put a stop to all of this and make some kind of truce?
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