My life has been nothing but failure in my eyes, and mostly everything doesn't go right. I've been in two out of district school placements since the 2002-2003 school year (my 7th grade year), was allowed to take some classes half of my freshman year and all of my sophomore year at my public high school and the rest of my subjects at a special school. Now all of a sudden I'm thrown into a worse special school than the previous one. This school is so small, we don't switch classes, and there's only about 10 kids in my class, but about a quarter of them rarely come. School rules say that you're not allowed to keep in contact or see your classmates outside of school, so really I have no friends except for my girl friend who is back in Pennsylvania (I live in crappy New Jersey). I keep trying to tell my parents that this isn't the right school for me, and that they should fight to get me out if they want to see me succeed in the future (which is quickly fading). My parents say, "Oh if you want to get out you have to prove to them that you can handle this school" stating that like I'll change in an instant when it's NOT an overnight process. I feel very down, isolated, and even unsafe in this school, and my only mode of defense is to just walk out of class and sleep in the hall to get through the day quickly. I'll be honest too, I'm kind of jealous of my girl friend, since she's a senior, has friends outside of school that live near her, and just seems to have a better life than me. I've been thinking about dropping out and/or running away. I feel that my future has already been ruined since I'm not in a school that's going to help prepare me for college, and it's not a school where I feel comfortable in. I have no idea where to go. I know you're going to throw the following suggestions at me, so let me list them and my reply...
Join a youth group and find friends there: tried it, people seemed very snotty, clickish, and unwelcoming
Find a club to join: my school doesn't do clubs
Transfer schools: I can't, the state of New Jersey (if you even want to call it a "state") says that you MUST go to the school your parents pay taxes for. My district is paying for my private out-of-district service
Someone please tell me how I can find new friends and how the h**l I can get out of this S****y school!!!
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