How can I get over the betrayal of a "friend?"?

Question

Long story short, I had this "friend" who I thought was a true friend and she led me to believe she wanted to mess around and do stuff, etc. even tho we both agreed there was no real romantic feelings involved. She even suggested I be her first beczu she is still virgin and she trusted me as a good friend to do that with her. When I went to see her this past weekend, she said no, I dont want to. First she said becauz we were to good of friends, then she changed story and said becaus she was thinking of someone else. Then the next day when we went out, she made out with someone else in front of me. She was just acting weird, like she would try to show off for her friends by trying to get smart with me, etc. and even she just acted weird when we were alone. There were times she was there for me in the past, etc. but beign around her was strange. I feel angry. What should I do? I feel as i shouldnt talk to her and just write her a letter calling her out on her **** and just never talking to her again. I had a bad feeling abotu her in the past...what kind of person is she? any advice? thanks!

Answer 1

You need Jesus.

Answer 2

You got to remember she is a virgin. She is probably scared to do it. I know I was. And from the sounds of it she isn't being honest with her feelings. I think she likes you more then she leads on and is trying to get you to like her the same way back which sounds like you do. Shouldn't fight your feelings. Why would you bring up her making out with someone else right in front of you if it didn't bother you? It obviously does so maybe there are feelings really there and you should see where it goes. Otherwise she is just playing a game with you and that also seems to be working. Only you can be the judge of whether or not she is worth having in your life. Good luck

Answer 3

if she already did you wrong once then whats to stop her from doing it again

i wouldn't take that risk unless i though about the relationship/friendship we had and believed that it was actually worth the risk  

Answer 4

Ax the b***** out!