I'm 16 years old and I turn 17 next month. My mom has been playing mind games with my father for years. Shes even started up on me! It all started when I was born. My mom was either working or at her friends house all day long. She was barely ever home and when she was, she was always sleeping or bitching. This caused my dad to raise me and im closer to my dad then I am my mom.
She used to go around and tell all her friends our family problems. She always exaggerates to people and puts things on really thick to make it sound worse than it is.
My dad warned my mom along time ago to stop telling everybody our family problems/personal business and she has started it back up! For about the last year (maybe more) she has been blabbing away to my aunt about ME and problems that have happened in the past with my behavior! I havent done anything wrong in the past 4-5 years! My mom has always been jealous of me because my dad will stick up for me instead of her. Now it seems like shes trying to get my aunt (my dads own sister) again him. And if my dad says anything to my aunt or gets mad at my aunt my mom will say "see I told you he sticks up for thomas" (my name is thomas) I cant take it nomore! She goes around and tells everybody our business in our house! Its like shes really goofy or something. I cant handle it nomore! I even fear of going over to my aunts house for get togethers because I know everyone knows about me and my mom always exaggerates!! How can I handle this?
My mom constantly plays these games! When something goes on at her friends house, she'll call up another friend and blab her other friends business and tell her all of what happened and she starts exaggerating alot!
Lastnight my mom went to my aunts house and my brother went with her. My brother told me that my mom was talking about me. He said that she exaggerated so much that my aunt got pissed off at my brother and me because of the way we act. I cant deal with it! She has my dad and me cornered! She has everything all planned out!
I used to misbehave along time ago but havent done anything bad in 4-5 years. The only thing that happened is school and I dropped out last year because of social anxiety. I used to get bullied in middle school and then I dropped out in 9th grade last year. Ive already got stuff straightened around and i'm going to take GED classes sometime this year to get my GED. I just need to hear from the counselor on where/what to go or do. I'm sorry if it sounds like im babbling away! I just have so much to explain I dont know where to start! Its like my mom is jealous and hates me! My dad says she used to get her friends against him and then laugh about it!
She plays these games where she will fake like shes mad at me and will scream at me just so my dad will hear it and get pissed off and come running to see whats going on. Then after my dads mad and gives me h**l, she will be like "haha I got u again" Its like shes jealous because he never sticks up for her! She complains that I need help and that she cant do nothing because my dad tells her not to! Now if she was a concerned parent, wouldnt she do something and not care what my dad says?
Please dont give me 1 word answers. I really need help with this! I cant see a counselor right now.
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